The Blessed Life

To those whom my life has crossed with .. I love you, I am sorry, Please forgive me and a big .. Thank you! I am not who I am today without you as my teacher. You taught me how to live a life, my life. I am who I am today because you have been a good teacher. My values are shaped from our shared experiences. Yes, indeed, I am human after all. May the blessings be!

Should cleaning a house is a big troublesome chore, it only means three unconscious reasons. First, I am a lazy complacent person. Second, I lack empathy. Third, I do not take responsibility serious enough. How can I not care for the house - owned or rented - when it gives me the comfort, shelter and safety net to live here on Earth? Why am I not loved her the way love should be? She may not be tangibly reciprocating and I may not fully sense her care, love and role but that's the way non living things are. There is quiet energy around that only God knows. These non living things, after all, are God's creations too. I need to respect them the way I must respect all humans. We exist for good reasons together. When I give my all, all the all will be bestowed upon me. What I give is what I get back. Good begets good. Bad begets bad. Respect is earned. May the blessings be!

For me to live a beautiful happy life, I need to recognize all the good values. They have to be instilled within me, way deep in the way I think. I need to be grateful to have met all the people in my life, all these years .. big or small, rich or poor, highly educated or otherwise. For these individuals are all my teachers to make me who I am. Each one of them has something to teach me, guide me, provide me. Each one of them is the ink that coloured my life. I need to be thankful. I need to appreciate. Importantly, it is important that I am respectful of their existence, for there's god within them. May the blessings be. May I learn not to take things for granted in my life!

  As is, as one thinking human, you and I are aware of many things.  As is, as one egoistic human, you and I feel insulted when others say we lack the sense of awareness.  At a glance, all humans – and they include you and I, tend to be self aware.  We can think.  We feel.  We act and react accordingly.  We would say we know what is good or bad and what is right or wrong.   In short, we claim that we are aware of ourselves.  We would probably admit - intellectually and with experiences - we understand the world around us.  Humans pride with having the sense of awareness which allows each one of us – including you and I - to perceive, process, act and react to our surroundings, based on what we think we know.  Our pride would also say of what we know to be our sense of awareness that is filled with good guarded conscientious mindset.  However, the sense of awareness is usually a subjective experience which may be distorted,...

At a certain point in life - in everyone’s life and mine too - will come to a point where things change.  What used to be personified no longer would feel the same.  What used to be will not stay the ways they were.  They come to a point where everyone simply lives in the way that only makes each of them happy, for himself/herself alone. Metaphysically said, we come alone and go home alone.  While we are all here, each one of us has to take good care of ourselves.  It is our sole duty to ensure it and to take good charge on our existence.  It is our self responsibility to care for oneself. People change.  Time constantly changes.  I change.   Change, while it may disrupt the comfort zone, is a catalyst for life to get better.  Question is, how does my mind think of it?  Philosophically, when the mind focuses on good change, life is guided towards the better path and the right choices.  When there is something to learn, the...

A new dusk to a new dawn with a new beginning.   Year 2 0 2 4 – a combination of number 8, which is considered ‘very lucky’ in Chinese culture, had been a good year for me.  From a twist of event to the previous year 2023, where I lost (another) sister, 2024 started with new resolution.  2 0 2 3 was a year of spiritual awakening and it gave me the insight to make things right. I wanted 2024 to celebrate life - my life.  I wanted it to be a year where I shared the celebration with those whom I loved and cared.  It was a paying back thing for their love and care towards me.  The truth for me to have lived up to the year 2024 was a feat out from their love. In January, I found new meaning to what I had previously lost.  The first month, January 2024, brought new meaning to my life.  It was camaraderie of love all over again.  Love, to which I had lost, was found again.  With new meaning, new wealth, new hope of benefiting from an old idea t...