The Blessed Life

Real beauty exists inside the heart, not on the physical.  No amount of makeup or facial treatments can replace the beauty of the heart.  Together with love and light, the pure heart shines all beauty. When there is light of love in the heart, the soul of that individual captivates.  At the end of the day, I will not remember the person with the most beautiful face.  I shall remember the person with the most beautiful heart and soul. If it is not for human errors, all humans are beautiful.  For they are made from the light of God.  With light, there shall be good morals and positive mindset.  The light will lit the heart with compassion. It is not the experience, knowledge or skills but it is the heart that matters most.  To cultivate a beautiful heart, I have to honest.  I have to stop judging.  I must not hurt others on purpose.   I need to have open mind.  I have to respect others.  I have to maintain an awareness of the preciousness of human life. A heart full of beauty is the sour

When I want to listen to others, I must not make it about me.  I should not clamour for my voice to be heard.  My intellect, while I am listening to them, should not tell me I have better experience or knowledge.  I need to be aware not to let my ego to take over to control the situation.   Listening to others is attending to them and I should not be switching the topic by telling my stories.  And voicing unnecessary stories which are not related and have little reference.   I need to learn to listen by keeping quiet and avoid rattling off quick responses.  My mind and my heart have to be with them and allowing their stories to be digested into my consciousness. Real honest listening requires my whole heart, body and being.  It requires my presence.  When I am not consciously present, I am unavailable to listen, understand and connect. Listening to others is an attitude of the heart.  Is love.  Is respect.  Is kindness.  It is to understand another person's perspective.  It is also

Words are energy.  They have powers and words spoken are the results of the thought process.  What I think about dictate what will be said.  Hence, it is very important that I get my thoughts organized.  It will be good that I have loving thoughts at all time.   As I talk with others, I have to speak the language of love.  Doing so will bring closeness.  Every word I speak matters.  My words can pour love, joy, comfort and clarity into the lives of the people around me.  Likewise, my words can hurt, humiliate and put others down.   I have to be constantly conscious to watch my words.  I have to spread love, respect and understanding.  My words have to be about building up relationship and not to make someone upset, angry or uncomfortable.  When my words are right, the tone will automatically compliment it. I have to recognize that people are listening to me when I am talking and speaking with them.  Wisely, I have to learn to pay attention to how I talk and I have to listen to the tone