The Blessed Life

When I fully accept my flaws - the errors, the mistakes and all the wrong doings - within me, the lighter I shall feel.  But, I cannot lightly accept them.  It has to be done with full wanting, full realization and full acceptance.  I must not give excuses for my bad attitudes, bad behaviours and bad manners. Acceptance is a tricky word.  It is an active verb to mean that I have to know what I really am.  That, I have to take it in and be non judgmental about myself (and others). I have to look into my attitudes, behaviours and manners.  In the way I think, the way I speak and how I act and react to every situations.  Is my body language showing compassion?  What about the tone of my voice?  Is it a tone of arrogance?  What about my words?  Are they encouraging and positive?  When communicating, do I engage or do I debate? Should I want to reform, I have to accept the ways of my actions.  How aware am I with my own outward bearing, the ways of behaving, towards others?  How can I ever

The mind is always hard at work all the time.  It picks up everything from what the senses feel, hear, see, touch and taste.  Each of these senses is a tool where the mind uses to build a clear picture of what life means.  From there, it allows the learning process and decisions making about the world. I have to be conscious to be kind to the mind.  My consciousness needs to nurture the mind so that all the data collected from my sensory organs is in touch with the purpose of the soul.  It has to work together and not against each other. I have to take time to allow my mind to rest, to slow down and recuperate whenever it needs.  I should not let it overworked.  It is good to practice daily meditation to calm down the mind.  Or, taking a walk in the nature to ground it.  A walk in nature walks the mind back to innocence. The mind learns from repetition.  It is important I speak to my mind often on what I want out of life.  When I want peace, for instance, I have to repeatedly let the m

To be a good human, I need to know what empathy is.  To be a better human, I have to comprehend what suffering is.  I cannot think I know and yet be oblivious to sense other people's thinking and, more importantly, their feelings.  Thinking and knowing are totally different.  And, I should not even try at assuming. To understand another, I have to know how he or she feels.  Do I have the ability to identify and understand another person's emotions?  Does my limited experience qualify me that I truly care for others, the way my intellect thinks I do?  Do I react with others with my IQ or EQ?  Am I swayed by arrogance to think my intellect knows it all, all the time? I have to find time to know and how much I know.  Have I really gone through the feeling of abandonment, betrayal, hurt, neglected, pain (the list goes on) before?  Have I dealt with grief of losing a loved one?   Have I been misjudged, threatened and struggled to prove my innocence?  Have I been without money? It is

The relationship I should care for the most is the one with myself.  This relationship is the only one that I can be at peace with.  When I choose to be in a relationship with my soul, I embrace the deepest meaningful connection.  It is a relationship that guarantees inner peace and heightens the connection with the Divine. When I am in love with my soul, I shall be in love with life.  I shall be in love with the Creator that creates me.  My soul is a perfect soulmate.  It is a perfect partner to live a happy and peaceful life.  My soul loves me unconditionally.  My soul totally accepts me.  This is a connection of divine quality that leads towards a rich earthly life. I have to deepen my connection with my soul.  I have to make more efforts to communicate with him.  Surely, my soul wants me to do that.  This communication will enrich deep respect between the two of us.  I have faith that my soul will take good care of me. Acknowledging my soul as my ideal soul mate completes me.  My s

A doctor will not be able to help me when I cannot describe the detailed symptom to him.  Likewise, should I want to get healed, I need to know what is actually wrong with me.  I have to be able to describe it all.  I need to be specific.  I have to know what is truly my problem deep inside. The body is intelligent and it can heal itself.  But it needs complete honesty where the mind, body and soul come together to conspire in a common language.  There has to be one congruent mindset.  There has to be total agreement and harmony.   Healing will not take place when there is conflicting consciousness. I have to be open and honest with my problem.  I should not hide away or bury anything.  I have to openly talk about it.  Knowing how my mind works is the first step.  It is crucial.   Is my mind dominantly negative or positive?  What about my self-talk?  Do I critically analyze every details and doubt at almost all circumstances? When I totally accept who I am, with all my flaws and imperf

The pandemic has brought my world to a standstill.  While I pray for the well being of humanity and Mother Earth during this challenging time, the pandemic has given me great opportunity about coming home to within myself.  Somewhat, I feel peaceful.  Somehow, I feel an increasing tendency to let things happen rather than make them happen. The lockdown slows down my pace for a good opportunity to visit on self knowledge.  It is a good time to discover things that I have taken for granted all these times. The social inactivity forces me to pay more attention to who am I.  It is the perfect timing to go deeper about knowing myself.  It is the time to listen to my body.  How is my physical body coping?  What are the dominant thoughts in my mental body?  Why is my emotional body feels in a certain way?  Where has my spiritual body taken me? Self knowledge is important as it offers a route to greater happiness and fulfilment.  A lack of self knowledge has greater chance of making errors in

When I become addicted to material things in life, my true natural life will run away from me.  While these things give me certain comfort, it can sabotage my true happiness in life. As a human, I have to be grounded.  I have to be warned not to heavily rely on the material things of this world.  I should not be too attached to what this world is offering me. Too much of worldliness voids me.  The instant gratification will make me to forget that these things are temporary.  That I will not be able to bring them when I depart from this world. I have to be humble to receive all of God's gifts.  The abundance and the good fortune are not to ride on my pride.  Yes, the quality of having these things can make me to feel blessed.  But, pride can be my downfall. I have to be mindful not to let the material things dominate every waking moment of my life.  There are reasons to every accomplishments.  How did I earn them?  Why have I been rewarded?  What is the purpose of acquiring them?  W

I have to let my inner voice to speak to me with compassion.  It has to be a voice to help me to grow, be kind and be useful.  It has to be a voice of love to make me a better person.  It has to be a voice from my soul that speaks the divine language. It is important to cultivate a language where the inner voice is only voicing out words of love, of courage and encouragement.  I should not allow it to interact with me negatively.  It must not be a voice of habitual skepticism to make me to oppose life. When my inner voice speaks to me with love, I will radiate peace on the outside.  I want my inner voice to be the voice of my Inner Child who is in love with me.  Who will help me to make better decision.  Who would want me to love and be loving. I have to nurture my inner voice to take the positive in any situations.  It has to be in tune with what I want.  Together, we will live for greater fulfillment.  Together, we can make better and fast life decisions.   We will be able to solve p

In order for me to reap more abundance into my life, I have to create a space for it.  It has to be a conscious effort.  I have to do house keeping every now and then, to make for that space.   I have to spring clean and declutter.  I have to discard things that are not working.  I have to throw, or donate, things that are no longer useful. I have to create space in my wardrobe.  I have to organize every cabinets, drawers and shelves throughout the house.  I have to clean and tidy the fridge.  I have to clean and tidy every corners. It will be good that I clear my emails.  It is good that I update my contact list.  I must not keep old mails.  There should be organized filing system.  It is good to throw books that are torn and tattered. When I declutter, I am letting go.  When I spring clean, I am ready to accept new things.  When I keep things clean and tidy, I am manifesting happy and peaceful life. When I want to manifest abundance, I need to live an abundant life.  When I declutter

Forgiveness is a healing virtue and when I can give it, it saves my life.  It makes me not to be trapped in anger.  Holding onto anger is like drinking poison but when I can forgive, all the hurt and disappointment dissipate.  I will no longer be consumed by bitterness that harms me physically and mentally. Forgiveness does not mean reconciliation.  The truth is, where the anger and hurt started, there was already a crack with different sets of energetic vibrations.  It has changed the emotional landscape.   Still, I need to forgive the situation and forgive myself.  Unless I forgive the situation, unless I realize the situation is over, I cannot move forward. When I can forgive, my soul gets to live.  Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps me to go on with life.  It is an act where I let go the suffering of the past and being willing to forge ahead with greater potential for my inner freedom. The key is, forgiving does not mean I am forgetting nor approving what someone has don

Only when I live to love myself that every single day gonna be a good day.  Even when I have a bad day, really bad day, the love that I give to myself will compensate it.  I cannot change the outside but I can be the reason to change what's within me. When I am in a position to lift myself off the ground, I have to stay true not to be the one to take myself back to the ground.  I should cultivate strong determination to love myself as much as I am to love all my waking days. Life can never be about joy all the time.  Nor it is about sadness.  The only equation to balance the outcome is in how I live it.  Life can be challenging and there are simply going to be days that cannot be labelled as great.  But, that does not mean I should not give it my best shot to try to love each and every day. Letting things go, moment by moment, is the best gift to live everyday.  Keeping an open mind goes a long way to make every day worth living.  Life can be unpredictable and it is hard to know wh

There is a purpose to everything I am experiencing in life.  Everything I feel, hear, see, touch and the people I meet - they are all lessons and blessings.  It is how I want to recognize the significance of their existence and not to simply dismiss the values.  Everything which exists has a cause behind them. When I feel angry is because I am not allowing myself to be accepting.  I hear a good news and it is telling me to be thankful.  I receive a sad message, it is asking me to pray.  I touch something and feel thrilled, life is teaching me to be grounded.  There are lessons and blessings in everything that happens to me. All things happen are full of reasons and purposes.  There cannot be a reason beyond purpose as purpose is what motivates reason.  Reason is the cause of an event, while purpose is the reason something is created or exists. I live among angels and angelic instincts exist in every humans.  The more I embrace in the beauty of every souls, their divine existence helps

I have full respect for this man.  I admire his dedication to give humanity the meaningful life.  He inspires me to write.  All my writings are my ways to go back to zero, be at zero.  They are, as I pray, to prepare me for my next steps to be one with myself and with God. He teaches me to clean and erase all my past beliefs, negativities, energy blocks, thought forms and all stuffs that prevent me from being in the presence.  He encourages to do the cleaning 24-7, 365 days.  He makes me to focus at my end journey where I can be home free, God willing. His name is Dr Ihaleakala Hew Len.  This is one of his many meaningful quotes that I resonate with.  He says:   [Quote] The purpose of life is to be restored back to Love, moment to moment.  To fulfill this purpose, the individual must acknowledge that he is 100 percent responsible for creating his life the way it is.   He must come to see that it is his thoughts that create his life the way it is moment to moment.  The problems are not p

In whatever that I do, it is important that I get a grip on myself.  I ought to have a conscious effort to control the emotions, thought process or my behaviour.  As much I should express myself freely, there has to be a limit.   I have to flow with the situation and humanely fit myself with the environment I am in.  Hopefully the divine wisdom will guide me and let me know the difference. Ignoring them has consequences.  It is good that I am able to distinguish the real from the imagined.  I need to differentiate between externally derived perceptions and what is my internal derived thoughts. When I am conscious of what I am doing, I will be divinely guided.  I will be doing from a soul level and not from my intellectual mind.  The language of the soul is love.  I have to get a grip to minimize my egoistical mind, the intellect, from over reacting. As Rumi says, 'when you do things from your soul, you feel a river moving in you, a joy'.  That is exactly what I must achieve whe

Let be brave, have no shame and face the truth.   Absolutely I am not perfect.  Else, I would have fulfilled everything that I desire.  Else, my health has always been good.  Else, there shall be no ups and downs in life.  Thing is, in a perfect life, everything should be beautiful and wonderful constantly. Having a good health, home, family, relationship and wealth makes a happy life.  However, a happy life does not mean that I am perfect.  All God's creation is perfect but it is something else when it comes to being human.   I am, for sure, not gifted with perfect life on a silver plate.  I have to mend things, mend myself, work on relationship, fight my battles and live to make life better.  Geez, even my fart smells. When I am not perfect, why oh why that I feel angry when someone is judging me?  Why do I feel upset when someone is telling me about my bad attitude, ugly behaviour and awful personality?  Why oh why that I, without realizing, have to become defensive and get hurt

A problem becomes big when I put attention to it.  When I focus too much trying to understand how and why it is happening.  Or when I make myself to feel trapped with growing anxiety.  And when I fail to see it as a gift to make my life better. Life, no matter what, is filled with problems.  It is the reality that comes along with being alive.  I should not view problems to be negative.  I must not let my mind to think they are clogs in the wheel of life.  Should they happen, I must have the courage and strength to face them.  I should not sweep them under the carpet. They exist to make me to understand more about life.  To make me to be thankful as there would always be good lessons to learn from them.  Any problems and the way I deal with them can become important and valuable experiences, both in the way I live and spiritually. Problems are important parts of life.  They give me lifelong valuable experiences.  They make me to learn and help me to become wise and stronger.  They shap

Everything that happens right in front of me is an opportunity for deep realization.  Everything I am witnessing has subtle messages.  Everything I feel, from events of outside me, is the lost feeling that I have learned to ignore within. When someone is emotional about something, that mental state is mine too.  It may not be very same but the coincidence has to do with something deep within me.  It has to do with past memories which are now asking to be addressed.  They are asking for me to take full responsibility.  They are related with my past that I chose to bury them. All events outside of me has higher purpose.  They are reaching out so that my consciousness is heightened.  They happen so that I can live a wise life.  They happen so that I have the opportunity to repent.  They happen so that I can pray to make things right.  They happen to give life a second chance. It is the Divine's way to provide opportunities that empower me in life.  I have to understand this process. 

Whatever emotions I am experiencing are a payback.  They are the invested results from my thoughts, my actions and from what I deeply feel inside.  These emotional paybacks are reminding me that I should watch my thoughts, observe my actions and words and be aware of my feelings.  They are teaching me what I give out will come back to me, eventually. The feelings of anger, hurt, sadness and all other negative emotions I feel within me are the sum total of my own doing.  The more I am complaining, criticizing and hurting others, the greater the pain I shall feel.  Pain begets pain.  What I throw out bounces back.  Should I want to stop hurting myself, I must get rid of my negative attitudes and becoming loving instead. Should I want my life to be filled with love, I have to be the source of love.  Love knows that nothing is ever needed but more love.  It is what I do with my heart that affects my environment.  Every little things in life count.  Even the smallest of things creates waves

I have to honour how far I have come.  Be it good or bad, it is good that I accept the situation.  It is good to acknowledge all the efforts I have had put in.  Today has the power to change what I had done yesterday.  And, it has the power to shape my future too.   Should I feel I fail yesterday, I can make it right today.  Should I feel I have made an accomplishment, it is good to try new things next.  What is important is to keep trying to gain new experiences so that I have new things to work towards. Life is such where there are always new things to be learned and new skills to be had.  All it takes is going there and doing them.  I need to live to start where I am.  I need to use what I have and do what I can. Where I am right now, here and now, allows me to reflect back on the past and project forward into the future.  It is a beautiful spot to act for something better.  Today has the power for me to choose what I want to do and do it well.  Choosing to live in the past or the f

Yesterday, I was sharing about my dream in some group chat.   Some friends reached out and comforted me.  I felt loved and I felt blessed that some Angels were sent to me.  They gave me beautiful insights to remind me how to live.  These Angels touched my soul and I was reminded, in good ways, to acknowledge and accept my bleeding heart.  I was guided on how to live and how to find the strength moving forward. I feel blessed to be surrounded with good people.  Their vast experience, good wisdom and learned knowledge provide me with good life lessons.  They are the comforters and the healers.  'Thank You' will not be good enough to express my deepest gratitude to them.   I pray that my prayers for them are answered, that they shall be blessed always.  Oh God, please bless all these good people, please. At the same time, yesterday reminded me that I have many faults.  I make mistakes repeatedly.  I keep doing silly things.  I am trapped in a vicious cycle.  Don't I have any r

All that I am doing, day in day out, is walking on a one way street.  There might be twists and turns, or a round about, and the ultimate is to reach the end, the final destination.  The street where I completed the earthly journey and to meet with the inevitable - Death.   There is no other end option available. That is what life is.  I should not fear the end but to enjoy the journey.  I should not put all my focus on it as it will happen somehow.  Instead, I have to keep walking and finding meaningful experiences to enrich my purpose with each and every step.  Along the way, I should stop and enjoy the smell of the roses and be one with nature. Life continues no matter what is.  But, the way I think matters.  I cannot and should not burden it with negativity.  I should let my thoughts be a happy one.  Any problems I encounter are not stop signs but they are guidelines.  Any successes I accomplished are not permanent too. As I keep walking, I should not overlook at life's small j

I pray for the world I live in.  I pray for my country.  I pray for my countrymen.  I pray for humanity.  I pray for my loved ones, my family, my friends and for myself.  I pray for better days ahead. What the world needs now is more than love.  What humans' need, as one, is peace of mind.  Humans need to feel safe again.  No one saw that the world, where you and I live in, will come to a standstill.  There are millions lost their jobs, millions lost their lives, millions lost their loved ones and millions suffered from a severe flu like ailment. The lock down has caused some forms of stress among us.  It changes social behaviours.  It alters the ways of lives, the way humans think.  There are many new normal at work, at home and everywhere in between. The vibration of the world has changed.  Is there something that Mother Earth wants the world to change?  Is she crying and suffering?  What does she want from humans?  Or, is the Universe has a bigger role in what is happening to Mo

Life moves forward and not backward.  When another new day comes, yesterday has left me completely.  I cannot rewind nor can I edit all the past actions.  My acts acted and words spoken spoken.   There is nothing else I can change.  Such, it is important that I am conscious with what I am doing, with what I am saying.   To regret is too late.  It has reflected badly on my conscience.  It shows I am not making good, not only for myself but with those I interact.  Worse, I am not giving life a chance to be beautiful.  I have to think how I want to live.  Against time, I have only one chance at doing things right.   Time has to be my friend.  As I am older each day, all that is important is to have more good days.  Should I have cried harder before, I want to laugh louder next.  I yearn to be surrounded by good loving things.   I want to live a peaceful life, be happy and let whatever days left be spent with meaning.  It is wise to stay good and be respectful towards anything and everythi

With love to Marie Kondo, a Japanese organizing consultant, I learn the term 'Spark Joy'.  It teaches me on the importance to keep things that only sparks joy.  The idea of sparking joy is to live with the tidied important things, minus all the junks and clutters.   The effect from these organized and sorted main essential items will let me to experience true joy. Holding on to too many unimportant things will not make life easy.  It makes me stuck and inflexible.  I will end up with an attitude of not willing to change nor compromise.  A cluttered mind, a cluttered personal space will not let me breathe peace.  It will not give me emotional and mental clarity. When I de-clutter my mind together with my personal space, it will be easier for me to let things go.  There is definitely freedom in a vacuum.  De-cluttering allows me to create more space for good things to fill in.   The act is a reset button to start things all over again on a clean slate.  It is also about change wi

There have to be meanings for everything.  They are the main ingredients to make lives meaningful.  Having a sense of meaning brings fulfillment with purpose.  They make lives useful.  And, to make my life to be useful, I have to love my purpose.  I have to love all the best possible meanings for all my thoughts and actions. Because I love my parents, for example, I will do whatever to make us happy a lifetime.  Because I love God, I ask Him to provide peace in my life.  Because I love life and I wish to find the how to make me happy.  Because I love you and I must live to be good at loving you. There is nothing in the world I would not do because of love.  In the endless pursuit of happiness, happiness should not be the goal.  By itself, happiness does not give a full meaning to life.  It is merely a by-product of being useful. What really makes me happy is when I can be useful, when I am useful.  When I can create something to bring meaning to myself and the world.  When I create use

The pandemic has made travel rather impossible.  Even when it is possible, there are now strict restrictions.  There are pandemic control regulations every where in the world.  Serving the Stay Home Notice is a must and quarantine violations carry heavy penalty. This current situation is a good call for me to travel within.  It is about coming home, a journey within, to my soul and tame my mind.  It is taking the opportunity to give attention to what is within me. Taking a trip on the journey within makes me to gain knowledge and understanding of who I am and what makes me me.  When I get to know myself better, I get to know who I truly am and what I can achieve.  I have to find time to take on this journey. Lao Tzu, the Chinese philosopher, says 'One who knows others becomes wise, but one who knows himself becomes enlightened'.  The journey within will make me to understand my own nature.   It is about getting in touch with what I already am.  As I sit and contemplate on this

Thank you for this meaningful quote, Ms Lily Amis (An author) - 'You go nowhere in this world if you think you are better than everyone else.  Always stay humble, child, regardless of what you achieve in your life'. A downfall in life is when I dismiss not to be humble.  When I disregard humility.  Worse, when I am full of pompous attitude and not grounded.   I have to remember where I come from.  I have to remember my roots and all the struggles I go through.  I come from nothing and while I may think that I have succeeded, success is always temporary.   There will always be many hills to climb on my journey in life, in all ways of living.  I am not more important than many others.  Every human is equally valuable, with success or otherwise.  I am not always right and that I do not have all the answers. As a human, I have this primal instinct wanting for approval and seeking acceptance from others.  It is done whether I am consciously aware of doing so or not.  This type of ap

When I take charge to care for my well being, I have to take conscious effort to be kind to myself.  I should know the extent of my boundaries and limits.  I must not make the stress of life any worse than it already is.  While limiting myself can affect productivity and I will not get to know how far I can go, I need to find a balance. A big part of self care is to learn how to cope with difficult situations.  It is important that I draw the line between myself and what are peoples' expectations of me.  I have to be aware of my strengths and my weaknesses.  It is wise that I know how much I am capable to cope and the distance I can handle. When I do not know my boundaries and limits, I will not be doing justice to my body and mind.  I have to define what exactly is too far or too much for me in order to know how much I can achieve.  Without knowing it, it may negatively impact my health. Nonetheless, I should not limit myself forever.  There is no boundary and no limit when I thin

Should I want to empower myself, and be a good human, I must learn not to give any excuses.  I should avoid using excuses for my anger, my disappointment, my frustrations and why I am not getting what I am looking for.  There is no 'outside' reason why things fail other than my own doing. All things start from within me.  I am the captain of my life, steering at the wheel.  When I do not take full responsibility and keep pointing fingers at others, or giving more and more excuses, I am not pleasing my soul.  To make excuses for my difficulties or failures reflects badly on my well BEing. Yesterday, when I was in the queue to get inside a supermarket, a lady had problem with her #TraceTogether token.  It resulted the queue to get longer.  It made some people frustrated, including me.  More than five minutes gone by and she was told by the Safe Entry Ambassador that the battery of her token had gone flat.  She looked at the queue and apologized. Should she have known better, she

Besides taking care of myself, it will be of great significance I take charge of my life too.  I have to take care of my well being so I can function.  And, the idea to take charge of my life forces me to assume responsibility for my well being.  It is where I am taking control for every aspects of my life. When I take charge, I live my life the way I want it to be.  It shall be right by me and for me where I am comfortable in my own skin.  I do not become what others want me to be but to live by the aspirations of my soul.  I will be the captain of my destiny where I manage my priorities in a mindful manner. It is important for me to take charge of my own life.  My safety, my happiness, my joy and all my success rely on me alone.  It is my sole responsibility to fulfill what I am supposed to be.   Others can lend their hands but when I do not have the confident and the courage, nothing is achievable.  Confidence puts me through challenges.  Courage gets me out of my comfort zone. When

All throughout my life, I have been told to be good and to do good.  My loving parents often reminded me to do that when I was growing up.  So were my elders, my teachers, my friends and almost everyone in my social groups.  Be good, do good is what I should be doing, no questions asked. When I am good with life, life will be good to me in return.  It is the law of cause and effect.  The more I engage with meaningful life, it will provide me with a happy and fulfilling life.  Purposeful life requires me to be patience, to be kind, to be loving and to think wisely for the long term. Be good, do good is a life with purpose so that I can feel good.  It is a life where I make the most of everything in any kinds of situation.  I have to know I can never please all men.  But, when I can be a blessing even to one human being, it shall be good enough. Every day grants me opportunities to do good.  God helps me when I help others.  I have to take advantage of the situation.  I have to immerse m

Anger and hurt are two different things.  I can be angry but not hurt.  Likewise, I am hurt, yet I am not angry.  While both emotions cause degrees of distress, they breed resentment.  It is the hurt feeling that gives rise to anger. I am no saint.  Anger and hurt are what I have created. I have hurt people and make them angry too.  I am not perfect and I make many mistakes.  I say stupid things.  I annoy people and piss them off.   All these bad habits have made me to hurt others.  Often I am too arrogant, I have too much ego.  I need to properly see myself so that I see what bad things I have done, not only for myself but others too.  It is a painful sight to see anyone who gets hurt and be angry thereafter.   I have to learn not to cross the boundary to cause more pain.  I have to be mindful of my thoughts.  I should have been more sensitive and thoughtful.  I should be more human.  I should not put myself below the level of awareness. While getting hurt could be the result from bei

Every moment of my life is without limit.  And so is the Universe with her endless bountiful.  I can ask her for anything and I just need to know how.  All I need is to put forth a clear enough request and everything my heart desires shall come to me.  I must not let my mind to trick me to limit things in life. It is said those who have less have asked for less.  And, those who have more have asked for more.  The Universe works with the law of attractions and vibrations that is linked with my unconscious mind.  The unconscious mind is where imagination lives.  It is where manifestation takes place. Asking for something from the Universe can happen.  It starts with a believe and, importantly, a want and a why.  In order for the Universe to provide for me, I need to know what I want and why I want it.  There has to be a degree, or sense, of certainty on what I actually want. At the same time, I need to let go any feelings of desperation.  After I have asked, I have to let go.  I have to

The day I connected with my Inner Child, years back, my soul spoke.  For the longest time, I abandoned my Inner Child that let me to live rather a clueless journey.  Then, I used to feel of an unfamiliar emotion inside of me.   I used to wonder why did I have an emotional sense that I had a bleeding heart.  Why, when I was always laughing, felt loved and life was good, I felt something was amiss. Moving forward, the reunion with my Inner Child changes the psyche of my being.  It makes me to understand the buried emotional issues.  My Inner Child let me to go deep into inner works and transforms the ways of my life.  Like me, he has been longing to re-connect.  I have to be the one to initiate it. The conviction to walk with my Inner Child, for the rest of my journey, needs to happen.  It is happening.  It will do me good to return home with him, reunited and as one.  My Inner Child needs to feel that I am serious.  He needs to hear it, feel it.   It is important that I prove to stay co

Peace is a state I want to attain.  Not only for myself, but for my loved ones and for the world I live in.  I am in love with peace.  I want it and I need it.  It has to live inside me as well as outside of me.   I genuinely wonder how lives can be when humanity lives in one truly peaceful world, with only love among us? Why is peace so important to me?  Peace gives me tranquillity.  It comes from the comfort in knowing that I have a roof over my head, food to eat and surrounded with loving family members and friends.   When I am with peace, there is a presence of good health, serenity, happiness, harmony and safety. Peace gives me great solace.  It helps me to be optimistic with everything that is happening with me, the good and those that are not so good.  To be at peace is simply to allow another to be, live, grow, expand, become.   It drives me to accept with everything and expect nothing, even though I may grumble a little.   Accepting peace makes me to be human.  It reminds me t

My life is either a daring adventure or nothing.  I am not here to survive but I am here to find my freedom.  I am here to push all boundaries and to be the human I am supposed to be. I have to know life in its full multi dimension.  To know life in its richness and in all its varieties.  I am here to make things right and to find wisdom in my thoughts, words, deeds and actions. I should not just think but be proactive.  I should free myself from the burden of too much analyzing and thinking.  Too much analyzing can be paralyzing.   I am here to understand about responsibility.  To own the responsibility for anything and everything that is happening to me.  I must own all that I think, all that I say, all that I do and for all of my actions. I am here to become conscious with all that is happening around me.  I am here to find meaning and to understand my purpose.  I am here to undertake the tasks and finish them. I am here to find freedom for my journey home.  I am here to free myself

I need to ignore the negativity that I cannot control.  I need to be present, mindful and grateful.  I need to treasure the moments I have in spite of everything else that may be happening around me.  When I do not, I am not appreciating life.  At the end of the day, everything that is happening to me is a gift. I should live above my pleasure.  I should make life my treasure.  Whatever is going around me is beyond my control.  I can only save myself.  I have to make the collective, conscious and concerted effort to focus on the positive pieces of my life. Let's face it, my life can end in a blink of an eye.  Knowing that, I should treasure each and every things that are important to me.  I need to treasure the people that make my days.   I have to treasure all the experiences for letting me be the person I am today.  The values of each individuals interacting with me along my way and all of my life experiences are unique and irreplaceable. At every point in my life, everything the

Should I want to achieve anything of value and meaning in life, I need to be consistent.  To succeed, there should be a desire to keep a constant momentum.  Being consistent is the difference between failure and success.  When I take any tasks lightly, there's a chance that I will simply give up half way.  Worse, I am losing myself on my own evolution and purpose of life. I have to be consistent in my endeavours.  There has to be conviction to gain greater insights and understandings.  The push has to come from within me, nobody else will be able to do it for me.   Like Rumi says 'It is your road and yours alone.  Others may walk it with you but no one can walk it for you'.  There is a feeling of inner peace and joy when there is constant purpose of doing things consistently. Consistency is an act of courage.  The courage to persevere and the bravery to know that things work.  It is about being regular and steady.  I have to put consistent efforts in order to see results.  

I should not hang around with people who make me not who I am.  I should live for who I am and not by what others want me to be.  Pretending to be will only hurt my soul.  I should not mix around for the mere sake of appearing to be popular.  It is better to be authentic rather than about being good.  I have to be who I am.  I have to be where happiness is. But, before I get to know where I should be, I have to know what I want to be.  And, before I get to know what I want to be, I have to have the identity of who I am. Who am I?  Am I just this body?  Am I a label of my name?  Of my status?  Of my achievements and experiences?  Of what I have and what I do not?  What is my Self Identity?  Is there more to me than my physical image? When I introduce myself to others, how do I let them know who I am?  I can describe myself with my name, my occupation and my interests.  But they are all the physical aspects of my earthly presence.  Is there more of me than all these? I have to be who I a

The mind can be a friend or an enemy.  Very often, the mind relies on the past to predict for the future.  While the past is a good gauge to safeguard on my well being, it can also stop me from progressing.   As a human, I hinder my own growth by over thinking.  Sadly, the mind often tends to form an idea about something before it really knows much about it too. I have to look forward and not to be stuck in my past.  I have to dream big, the bigger the better.  When I set my goals higher and should they fail, I will fail not at the very bottom.  Aiming high gives me better results. I should not downgrade my dream to fit my reality.  Instead, I have to upgrade my conviction to match my destiny.  It is such conviction that motivates and pushes me to success.  When there is such a conviction, it accelerates my ability and builds bigger courage to handle all kinds of challenges in life. There is nothing wrong to think big.  When my dreams do not scare me, then I am not doing right for me. 

The Universe sees all things as golden opportunities.  Everything she has, everything she offers, they are meant to make all lives better.  Everybody deserves and nobody is left behind.   She, who walks with the Divine, continually showers all lives with fullness.  Those who ask shall receive.  Those who have less have asked for less. It is my mind that consents to receive them to a greater or lesser extent.  In purely spiritual matters, Divinity grants all desires.  Divinity fills all wants.  It is me who is not able to fully comprehend on the gift of receiving.  The gift of receiving creates intimacy and expands consciousness. I have to receive everything with faith, with love and with joy.  Knowing it is an attitude.  I should not be receiving with doubts.  Doubts will sabotage the outcomes.  Doubts stem from past negative experiences and they will not give the clarity on where I want to go next. I have to choose.  Do I want to flow with opportunity and take charge?  Or, do I want t

Growing old is natural.  One cannot avoid it.  I should not be ashamed that I am getting old.  It is important to accept on the sequence of predictable process of life.  There is nothing to fear.  It shall be wise that I have the right attitude to face reality. For me to have quality golden years starts with the right mindset today.  Just like the computer, I have to start to defragment my thoughts and deleting unwanted files and data now.   I have to abandon all old beliefs, all old conditioning and programmings.  Should I not clean, delete and erase them, I will not get to live my golden years with better and mature perspectives. I should create a vision to see myself growing old gracefully.  More essentially, I have to teach my mind to accept changes and own them.  My mind has to keep finding meaningful activities continuously.  My mind has to stay sane.  My thought process should be reasonable and sensible. I want to live my old age with a healthy mind and body.  That I have a stab

I believe it is good to be a Nowist.  When I am a Nowist, I live in the now.  The only way for me to function well, to stay sane and to be empowered is to function efficiently in the now.  What matters is now, not yesterday and not tomorrow. Being in the now makes me to be aware, and mindful, of what is happening at this very moment.  I shall not, and must not, be distracted by the process of continuously thinking on the past or to worry about the future.   My task is to ground myself in the here and now.  Here and now is the point between my past and the future. I have to comfort myself not to dwell on the past.  The past has left me and I can only use it to illustrate a point and to leave it behind.  Nothing really matters except what I do now in this instant of time. Tomorrow will be what I do today.  When I want tomorrow to be a better future, I have to start taking actions today.  I have to make today be the right day to love, to believe.  Today is a good day for a good day and fo