The Blessed Life

When the heart stops beating, the movie of life ends.  The heart is where stories of life are written.  It stores all kinds of love, in every degree.  It is here where love filled with compassion, kindness and love resides.  It is also here where love filled with hate, jealousy and resentment lives. The heart represents the center of love and security.  My heart has to beat to the rhythm of love.  It embodies a sense of being.  I should nurture it to be able to experience and express compassionate love to my soul.  The amount of joy that my heart gives depends on the amount of readiness I have in my heart. Every which way, the heart is under the subconscious command of the mind.  The heart is neutral but it is the mind that shapes its direction.  The mind is better at dictating how the heart feels.  I have to work on my mind to be one with my heart.  I have to sync the mind to undertake the language of my heart. My consciousness has to guide my mind to guide my heart.  It is important

When I want to feel free and to own my life's meaning and purpose, I have to learn about detachment.  I have to break away from past beliefs, from my old conditionings and everything that makes me attached.  Associating myself with toxic environments that tie me in will not liberate me too.  These things will not give me the freedom to grow.   I have to recognize what is making me fixated.  I have to recognize the negativity of external circumstances that are in conflict with my internal peace.  Detachment is my duty and it is my right for a better life.   It is a responsibility not to expect anything in return.  To make myself detached does not mean I am no longer caring.  Instead, it makes me to view circumstances from outside the box with a heart. It is good that I do not get myself attached emotionally to labels, to people and to my past.  I should not be conditioned to them.  Attachment makes me to depend on things, or other people, for my happiness.  I have to learn to detach

No words are empty words.  Each word is powerful.  Every words matter.  Every syllable spoken engages energy, either towards or against.  They are the force that drive humanity.  They carry a great amount of energy that changes the world.  Each energy is waiting for ripple effects to happen.   The energy manifests instantaneously and makes it way into the hearts.  Words can break a heart just as sure as meanness.  The difference is, the kind words that make the broken heart softer and the mean words make the heart want to be hard. Each word I speak has a life of its own.  It is full of vibratory nature that unites and breaks relationships.  It creates waves into the expanse of consciousness.  I have to be aware of my words.  I have to remind myself that my words have all sorts of impact, not only upon myself but with others too, constantly.   My thoughts have to work with the energy of love for my words to come out right, out of my mouth.  Every words shape lives and they drive behavio

I am enriching today with faith that it is awesome.  It will be good that I wake up each day with feeling good and that I will have a good morning, a good afternoon and a good evening.  I am going to end my day, with faith each day, that it will be a good night. Faith - this beautiful spiritual word raises hope.  It puts me to have full trust in life.  Faith is just as important as the air I breathe.  While the air keeps me alive, faith nourishes my heart and my soul. When I have faith that every day is going to teach me something, I shall live all my days feeling awesome.  When I believe, I can overcome all the ups and downs easily.  When I believe, the lessons I learn each day uplift and save me.  Faith makes me stronger and it grounds me. The beautiful thing about life is that I can always change, grow and get better.  I am not defined by my past.  I am not my mistakes.  I have to live today, with faith, for a better tomorrow.  I have to light tomorrow with taking charge of today. D

When I earnestly clean on my past, I erase the errors.  The more I clean, more errors get erased.  Cleaning let me to delete my unwanted data.  It helps me to remove unwanted past beliefs.  It expunges past values so that I can be free and to start anew. Why do I want to clean?  The purpose is to heal the past and that I get to forgive myself.  Cleaning allows me to understand that all my past beliefs are not allowing me to move forward, the way my soul wants it.  These past beliefs are preventing me from living my life to the fullest.   Cleaning helps me to let go of resentment.  It also clears out preconceptions in how I view others.  The more that I clean, I get to remove toxic, self limiting beliefs, doubts and fears from my mind.  I will be interacting with quality things.  I get to connect with people that are vibrating at the same frequency. The moment I start to clean, there will be paradigm shift.  But first, I must take full responsibility on all my actions.  I have to stop t

Happiness makes me to move forward with joy.  It is a feeling to tell me my life is good.  It gives me a sense of well being and contentment.  It is letting me to experience positive and pleasant emotions in my state of being.  In mental, emotional, physical and spiritual states. Happiness improves the quality of life.  It matters when I want to achieve beautiful things in life.  I am an emotional being and to experience happiness on a daily basis makes a lot of difference in life.  It makes me to connect with others meaningfully.  It builds my capacity to cope and I get to appreciate life. Happiness is not by chance but by choice.  Trying to live a happy life is not about denying negative emotions.  Nor it is about pretending to feel joyful all the time.  When I am happy, it is good to make the most of the good times.  Happiness is a deep sense of flourishing. It is important I keep happiness alive.  It is an emotional state to create quality in life.  It enriches the feelings of sati

I am not perfect and that is the real me.  Nor do I want to be perfect.  To be perfect is to live a life in an imaginary ideal world.  But, my world is not imaginary nor it is perfectly ideal.  Striving for perfection is stressful and I do not want to live a stressful life. When I stop striving for perfection, I can be less worried and be a happy person.  To pursue a perfect life, I create unrealistic expectations from myself, without realizing it much.  Perfectionism steals away the meaning on life as it constantly remind me that I will never be good enough. I do not want to be right either.  Being right inflates my sense of self worth, my undying ego.  It is an unhealthy feeling that wreak havoc on my relationship with others.  To think that I am right, and always have to be right, fails me from acknowledging that life is far from perfect. What I should live for is to make things right.  To make things right for me and not for someone else.  I have to live to make myself happy first.

When I give, I want to forget that I have given.  I want to stop thinking about it.  I shall think no more of it.  It has passed and I should move on.  I should erase it off my mind, completely if I can.  When it is given from out of love, love does not expect any returns. Give unconditionally - this is the best deed ever.  Have I given out my time to those I love?  What have I given to my family?  How much love do I give to my physical, emotional, mental and spiritual body?  Have I contributed to my groups of friends and to my community? I have to teach myself to give without any reasons.  To love without conditions.  To talk without bad intentions.  And most of all, to care for people without any expectations. I ought to give without placing conditions, freely.  There shall be no expectation nor thought of repayment.  When I receive a 'Thank You', that shall be the end of the undertaking.   From here on, I have to remember to forget the deal, what I have given.  Should I expe

Everything that I do cause ripple effect.  Whether it is my word, my action or my thought, the effect from these acts influences and it spreads.  Like a domino, a series of things shall happen.  In all things, they open doors for the next thing. One small act of kindness can change the world.  One horrific word can destroy a relationship.  One simple thought can change an event.  There is an influential power on every little things.   Everything hinges on energy.  An action, a word or a thought radiates vibratory effects - subtle, yet it changes things around. I have to be in charge of what I think about.  I have to watch my action.  I have to be kind with my words.  Whatever energy that I engage with has to be of a conscious effort towards character building.   Every little act is significant than I might think.  Every word, every act and every thought changes the outcome and the events.  They can snowball and one is never exactly the same after that. I have to act in the faith of goo

Superstition is made by human, for human.  It is a human thing, mostly fear motivated.  Believing in superstition is not living with the faith of God.  Superstition divides but God unites.  They do not complement each other.  Superstition is the illusion of control. Yes, the world can be a terrifying place.  Yes, God does not seem to spare humans from bad things.  But, do humans know what are God's bigger plans for us all? One superstitious example:  On happy occasions, it is told not to talk about death.  There is also a belief to avoid attending funeral wake during Chinese New Year.  It is a bad luck thing.   But, isn't death a part of life that can happen any time?  Are those who passed on during any of these festive occasions a bad thing? What happen to love?  What is happening with respect?  Why are humans playing God to dictate what is right and what is not?   Should superstitions are God's ways, why are there different sets of beliefs between the East and West?  Or b

Life is a friend who walks with me.  He is always there, watching me as I make all kinds of choices.  He is always whispering into my ears reminding me that I am loved.  That my life has a meaningful existence, that it has purpose.  He wants me to be happy and to take heart that all things are well and good. Life does not judge me, he does nothing of that sort.  The one that is judging is me.  Life is the aspect of existence that is neutral in nature.  The process of life is linked to the story it contains.   I am the story teller.  I write every lines, every chapters in the story.  I am the one that impose upon it and demand on how life has to be. When I open the door to let Life to love me, I open myself to Life.  I will see my true self identity.  Everything that I need shall be revealed to me.  He will create values and meaning and let me to move into the future creating the present. When Life loves me, he will show me about acceptance.  The acceptance that I have limits.  The acce

I wish the light of repentance wakes on me so that I can walk into the light.  And its brightness goes deeper into my cellular consciousness to wake me up and guide my ways.  I am certain the feeling of regret will open up into something bigger, a complete spiritual change .  I wish the light reaches into my heart and it wakes the seed of goodness within. Repentance is not an apology.  It is not a confession.  It is an act of making a 180 degree turn to own my errors, mistakes and wrong doings where I shall take them with full responsibility.   I pray for the light of repentance to shine on my thoughts and burns away all negativities.  I pray for the light to beam on my words and let me to communicate with loving positive words.  I pray for the light to glow on my deeds so that I respect all creations.  I pray for the light to radiate on my actions and it teaches me to be humble to acknowledge my imperfections. I want the light of repentance to teach me to be human first before I talk

To be at peace with life is to accept things as they are.  I have to avoid analyzing too much or to fret on the small stuffs.  When there is too much over-analyzing or over-thinking, the decision making becomes paralyzed.  Analysis is paralysis and there shall be no solution or course of action acted upon. Life is usually understood when I look backwards.  My past experiences shall be the guide and they are good life lessons to provide the wisdom for the future.  However, I should not live in my past for life has to be lived forward. To live in the past can cause me not to live in the present.  Focusing too much on the past can keep me permanently stuck there.  Rather than spending too much time replaying how things ought to have gone, it is much more productive to let go and let God to transform my present. Living in the past empowers negative thoughts to grow.  When I have learned from my past, it is good that I erase it from my memory.  I need to learn what I can from the memories o

I should not live for the sake of living.  Surely, there is a role for me on Mother Earth, no matter how small it is.  Besides to be a good son, a good brother, a good cousin, I can spread my feeling of love to nature too.  I should talk to the trees, sing to the birds and express my gratitude to all of God's creations by just touching and thinking of them. It takes little effort to smile.  It is courageous to show kindness to strangers in need.  It is a worthy cause to think of good things to the people I know and pray, or truly wish, for their well being.   When I cannot do great things, I can do the small things in a great way. Contributing to others is not only good for the people receiving it.  It is also a good thing that makes me happier and spiritually healthier too.  Giving connects me to others, creating Love in the process.  And, it is not all about money.  I can give my time, ideas and a little energy. Doing things to help others is an action for happiness.  I have to o

From 1 (the lowest) to 10 (the highest), where is my level of peace?  Where is my level of happiness?  How happy am I in general?  Am I truly peaceful?  Do I have a high level of good and meaningful life?  How well am I able to cope with my struggles? It shall be wise that I come to realization so that I reap the full life.  It will make me to be proactive with myself, not in a narcissistic way, but to identify the grand benefits where they are beneficial for my emotional, mental and spiritual growth and development.   Pressing myself to answer these questions, honestly and truthfully, will navigate me into mindfulness.  Should I have them in the high range, are the answers a sum total of truth?  Have I, completely, decluttered my heart and mind that I score a high state of being? Or, are all these high ratings a play of my ego?  Are they my state of denial because I want to look good, feel good and be good?  For that matter, what and where is the level of my ego? Mother Earth has alwa

The soul of every humans is an energy of love; is Love.  Is about Love.  Is full of Love.  The soul is the abstract immaterial essence and totality of who a human is at a core level.  The soul is the true nature of every humans. All that a soul wants is to make humanity to live with moral compass and direction.  The soul does not know, nor does it want, life to be complicated.  The purity of the soul wants every humans' lives to know that he or she is more of he or she can become. It is my egoistical mind that makes my soul to suffer.  My soul suffers when I do not nourish it by integrating a spiritual component into my life.  It suffers because I do not strive to give my life meaning and purpose. So, my dear Self, by whose side do you want to live your life with?  The mind?  Or the soul? I have to be aware of my soul and the works of my egoistical mind.  I have to make a clear distinction by which energy I live by.  My mind is very attached to being earthly with all the material n

It is a blissful connection should I hear the voice of my soul.  It is very healing should I hear the whispers of my inner child.  I am a relational being to them.  To be able to communicate with them is natural. How do they sound?  How can I hear them?  What will be our common language?  What will they tell me?  How would they guide and protect me?  Will it be overwhelming?  Are they sad?  Or happy?  Can they help me to make my life better? Not to be with them makes me to feel disconnected.  My soul and my inner child are parts of me.  They are always there for me.  They never left me.  I am the one that have neglected them.  I fail to look after them.  I pay no attention to them and have left them uncared. I am guilty that I have buried them deeper and deeper as I pursue my earthly material life. It is common to steer away from hearing them.  As I move on from an innocent child to become an adult, I become tangled up with the pressures of life.  I have lost them during the process of

Life is Just Is.  Should I make a remark that life is hard, what am I comparing life to?  Who am I compared it with?  When I say that tomorrow will be a better day, what is the basis for my positivity? It is natural that I shall look for differences and similarities in life.  But, is there a need for it?  The attitude to compare robs me of gratitude, joy and fulfillment to what life is.  Worse, it prevents me from fully living my life. When I insist to compare, I am not giving myself to live with faith.  I make myself to envy on others and seek theirs rather than appreciating what I have.  Constantly doing so, I fail at giving gratitude.  It robs me of my most procession - life itself. There is nothing good ever comes from trying to compare myself to others.  Comparing my life with others is a losing proposition.  Fact is, there will always be others who appear to be better off.  And, that should not affect me should I accept my self identity. There is no end to the comparison game.  T

What else can I do?  To be deeply affected with the ongoing happenings, around the world today, will not make my world any better.  I am in no position to elevate nor can turn things around.  The only contribution I can offer is to keep on praying for all things good and well.  And, keep social distancing, I guess. It is good to remind each other to stay healthy.  It is good intention to update each other with the news, but they have to be positive and uplifting.  It is good to keep the love for life going.  Love, in unity, pushes the virus away.  Love among us shall rebuild the sanctity of human life. While the situation is affecting our lives, my life, I have to look at the brighter side.  It shall do me good to lighten up, be responsible and stay positive.  To smile more and laugh more.  And, not to get worked up for not able to do the things that I used to do. While getting stuck at home can be a toll for some, take this opportunity to build relationship.  Bond with the souls insid

It is always easier to talk about doing something.  Often, I say something but never get to do it.  Often, I will criticize on something and be a keyboard warrior but not taking the initiative to act.  Do I make my talk that cheap? To be a better human, either I stop talking for the sake of talking or I walk the talk.  I have to show that I mean what I say by actively doing it myself.  My soul will be proud of me should I practise what I preach. Can I walk the talk?  Can I do what I say I could do, or would do, and not just making empty promises?  When I know what I am saying, I have to be proactive.  I have to take the initiative, own it, and not just wait for things to happen. The Universe works with the Law of Attractions and Vibrations.  She feels me.  The more she feels that I am only talking and not acting, I will not attract the things that I want.  I have to prove to her that I put an action where my mouth is.   Talk without the support of action means nothing. Kindness is not

Many aspects of life can make me feel trapped.  A news of someone passing, for example, makes me to wonder the grief of those left behind.  A news of a war makes me to question about love, about humanity.  When I hear that someone is emotionally in pain, I feel sad.  Or, I read some news that I have nothing to do with and they upset me. What's within me that I have created that is causing me to feel trapped?  Something about these unrelated events are stirring me up.  Am I trapped because I have been hiding and running away from facing the reality that life is to offer? Perhaps I have not given life with enough love to live on?  Perhaps, I have taken life for granted?  Perhaps, I have not been proactive to gain a sense of joy with life?  Perhaps, I feel that I have no control over what is happening?  Am I feeling afraid to live?   I have to take charge to realize that life responds to me.  What I see life to be determines the way I see the world.  I have to make sure that I am look

Life is what I make of it.  It is up to me to make the life that I want.  I have a fair share of the universal abundance.  The entire universe is inside me.  I have to allow myself on all the opportunities.  At the core, it cannot be just dreams but accomplishments. Life can be a struggle.  It is important that I have the mindset to get through it even when it is hard.  I have to hold on to what I have because when I have it, it is a possession.  All the ideals and criteria I have set in my head are not mine because those have not happened to me yet.  When ideas are just in my head, they are just ideas until I act on them. I am a small part of the big equation.  To experience as a human, I need to remind myself how lucky I am and be thankful for that.  I have to live my life.  When I live my life, there will always be the divine moments.  When there is a will, there is always the way. To walk through life, I cannot wait for my plans to materialize as they may never materialize the way

Should I want to change my world, I have to start by changing my own beliefs.  I have to exercise paradigm shift on how I view on the nature of life.  On how I look at people.  On how I interpret every events.   On the way I perceive at reality.  Simply, I have to establish by looking inward. I have to turn my beliefs to something more positive.  I should not empower nor manifest the negative aspects of life.  I should avoid thinking of the what-if.  My thoughts are like boomerang and too much soaking up on negativity and the what-if can stunt my growth. The most powerful thing I can do for myself is to love life.  A life without love is like a tree that will never blossom.  A life without love is not a life at all.  A life without love, with no matter how many other things I have, is an empty meaningless one. Life is neither good nor bad.  It is neither suffering nor bliss.  I am the one that put labels on everything.  It is my thought process that makes life to be difficult.  Should

When my mind is open, I shall not be overwhelmed by an unusual event.  Anything could happen and probably will.  It will be good that I expect the unexpected.  When I let my life to flow with the flow, I shall not be blown away when the unexpected happens. Life is planted with the unexpected.  Just like the world that I live in where it is capricious, unstable and constantly changing.   While I wish for things to be in order, where all events are stable and predictable, I have to be prepared for surprises. I want good things to happen.  I want things to work according to my plans.  Should things are not going the way I want them to be, there are good reasons surely.  I should accept them as opportunities to learn, grow and make an improvement. Life is as it is.  Some days are great, others are not.  Each of these creates the canvas for me to design how to make things better.  While I pray that all things are good and well in my life, I have to expect the unexpected to make my life bett

I am not a human having a spiritual experience.  Instead, I am a spirit having a human experience.  My soul is a spirit and it is always connected to my Creator, the Divine.  When I am born, I take on a physical body.  This body is a temporary vehicle where my soul lives in. There are billions of other souls.  They walk around just like me on Mother Earth.  Each one of us, through the physical body, reaches out to each other.  Each one of us has to find our own meaning and purpose.  Each one of us has responsibility and has to hold to it.  Each one of us makes a commitment to be the mouth of the Creator. Every human on Mother Earth is connected to the Creator in the same way.  Each one of us has our own personal connection to the Divine.  This connection does not cease and can never be broken.  The Divine will never abandon us.   The difference among us lies in how each one of us thinks.  The mind separates one soul to another.  The mind separates all the fate and destiny.  All the inf

I am blessed.  I am thankful to the people who have been with me.  They raise me up so that I can stand on mountains.  They taught me how to live to more than I can be and to realize my strengths and my weaknesses.  They make me to be aware of my attitudes, my thought processes and my personality. I am thankful to my parents.  I am thankful to my siblings.  I am thankful to all my relatives and my ancestors.  Directly and indirectly, all of them mould me.  Since I spend a huge part of my life with them, family members play an integral role in developing who I am today. It is said that I learn good life lessons from family members.  They teach me a lot about myself and life.  I am the sum total of who and what they are.  We share similar and common characteristics and traits. My family is my reference point.  Each one of them is my mirror.  Each one of them is what I am.  When I want to know my identity, all that I do is to look at each one of them.  Like it or not, I resemble them.  Th

It is what it is.  When things fall apart, pause and breathe in and out.  The breath of life will revive the anguished mind for the soul to take charge.  When a situation is not life threatening, it is good to take a moment to reflect and do nothing.  Going inward is the calmest way forward. The irony is, when things happen, they have already been manifested in the mind.  The event has been planted in the thought form.  Some forms of energetic vibrations are waiting for the event to take place.  It is an unconscious desire yet powerful enough for it to come into fruition.  Often, it is a matter of time before it becomes obvious. Watch Your Thought is often advised.  It takes complete understanding to see how it materializes.  It takes full realization to accept that a thought can actualize into reality.  They always do.  It is good that I learn to speak only when I am sure that my words are better than my silence. Que sera sera, what will be will be.  No, life is not que sera sera - it

I have dreams.  I make wishes.  There are days that I want a better life.  There are days that I desire to fly high and make everything to come true.  While I am happy being me, it is good that I set new heights in life.  I have to set my sight on a destination that I can reach. It is said that life without dreams is like a bird with a broken wing.  It is good to dream high, beyond the sky and to keep my vision bright.  I must dare myself to learn.  I am the only one who can help myself to grow in life. But, before I start to fly high, I have to ground myself.  Flying starts from the ground.  The more grounded I am, the higher I fly.  I have to inspire my mind to scale high and to let go any limited self beliefs.  I have to delete and erase the negativity. And, when I am flying high, I have to remember my origin.  I may get lucky and stay in the sky forever, flying higher and further.  But, I need to realize not to buy in a superficial reality.   For it has an expiration date.  I have

Imagine the beautiful voices of angels that speak, that I can hear them.  How a blessed life is when I can feel God's love in all moments of my life.  It will be a wonderful life, indeed. Angels speak all the time.  They exist to guide humans and teach important life lessons.  They come in dreams though I may not recognize them or remember the dreams upon waking.   They nudge me when I am awake though I may be too skeptical to understand it.  They communicate inside my head and I may dismiss it thinking it is just an imagination. They are all around at all time.  They might even try to appear before me.  Or, they choose to speak through someone so that I can get the important messages.  Angels are always trying to make contact, always wanting to reach out. Their presence is God's gift to humanity.  It is God's way to touch humans, of comforting us.  The Divine wants humans to understand the universal abundance.  Only when there is understanding, there shall be enjoyment, ha

I have sins of my own to count.  I argue and I have anger.  I criticise and I judge.  I have lied.  My ego makes me think that I am better than many.  My intellect tells me that I know a lot more.  I make promises and break them. There are people that are hurt by me, mentally and emotionally.  I make them to be upset.  I make them to be angry.  I make them to feel uncomfortable.  Surely, there are people who dislike and hate me. Without me realizing, my bad behaviour has to do with my insecurity.  It has to do with my ego that wants to control.  It has to do with the lack of empathy and understanding.  I am loving myself too much that I am over protecting myself but in a nasty way.  I become inconsiderate, selfish and self centered. I must address my bloated self esteem, my arrogant self important.  I have to learn to be humble.  I need to be aware that I will never be the Mr-know-all.  I cannot be the smartest when knowledge is too huge to comprehend.  I forget that I do not utilize 1

I have to be a reflection of my words.  Communication has the power to be my best friend or a worst enemy.  Whatever that I say, I need to act accordingly.  I need to mean it.  I should not be saying something camouflaged in superfluous and irrelevant words.  Importantly, I need to be truthful with my chosen words. To speak from my heart, it is good that I avoid not to talk foolishly.  I have to speak from what is real.  My words are the reflection of my soul.  I should not speak for the sake of speaking.  My voice has to reflect my sincerity.  It is good that I can be specific in what I want to say. I must learn to speak so that I can be understood.  To do that, I have to believe in what I am trying to say.  There has to be value in my thoughts.  My words have to be authentic and they stay true to my heart. The more that I mean what I say, I am empowering my life.  I am adding value to it.  The more that I do what I say I am going to do, it determines my success.  Whatever that I say

I have to assure myself that I am never in poverty.  In good faith, everyone has too much of something, whether it is time, talent or treasure.  For its authenticity and to be grateful in life, I should not have a poverty mentality. With that state of mind, I will be able to open my heart and be able to give back.  I have to find the joy in giving something back.  It is said that "your greatness is not what you have, it is what you give". The act to give is to live lives to be a blessing and be useful.  It shall enrich my soul as well to the receiver.  It makes me to acknowledge that life is bigger than me.  That life is not all about me.  I have to think beyond me. I have to consider other people in this world.  Should I want to live fully as possible, I have to make space for them, their troubles and their joy in my heart.  What would I do for my beloved, the people to whom I care and love?  Would I not give them to share my life, knowing that time is precious? What I can g

It matters greatly to take time to care on my well being.  When I take good care of my mind and body, it produces positive feelings so that I can transmit these good feelings to others.  These positive emotions compliment for my social, medical and psychological state. Taking good care of myself is paramount to the success for my personal growth.  It helps to support my emotional, mental, physical and spiritual state of being.  Taking care of all these aspects will increase the likelihood that I will be joyful, happier and more at peace. I have to live healthy.  I have to practice good hygiene.  I have to do something I enjoy every day and do things that matter to me.  And, I have to find ways to relax.  When I take good care of myself, I boost the ability to deal with stress and keeping myself healthy.   The only way to be at peace with myself is by embracing the sense of responsibility and self care. Taking care of my body emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually creates joy

Who's Job Is it? This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody. There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it.  Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it.  Somebody got angry about that, because it was Everybody’s job.  Everybody thought Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn’t do it.  It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have. Who Wants Change? Once there were four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, Nobody who wanted change. So, Everybody said "I want change". Somebody said "If only anybody would start to change, I will join." But Nobody said "I will change." Finally Everybody stayed same, blaming Somebody for waiting for Anybody to start changing. So, Nobody changed. ----------- Imagine what can happen when there is a 'must do it'?  Does being proactive a should or must?  What guarantees produ

To surround myself with a bird of the same feather will allow me to be happier.  By engaging with like-minded individuals makes me to learn life lessons at a faster rate.  This is a group of souls that will judge me less but creates better experiences.   They will allow me to learn different viewpoints, identify blind spots without throwing me under the bus. I have to identify these souls should I want a quality lifestyle.  I have to prioritize my happiness and peace.  My mind does not have to work harder with such group of like minded individuals.  There is no pretension for there is common understanding with one common language and purpose. As a human, I need a little validation, encouragement or advice.  While many can offer their wisdom, it is hard for them to relate to me should our minds are not alike.  Sharing common struggles together is a great way to brainstorm solutions, amicably and lovingly. Learning and growing are keys in life.  Similarity is useful for learning and grow

Every day is a new day.  Every day is a new beginning.  When the sun rises every morning, so shall be my will to live.  Let the new light shines on hope and let faith be with new opportunities.   Should yesterday did not end up the way I wanted it, today is godsent day to start anew.  Today, I have to give another shot at the best.  Nothing is pre-destined.  Everything, in life, happen for a reason and let that reason be good.  Life happens when I react to it.  What I visualize, it shall materialize. Should yesterday had been wonderful, today will be much better.  All about life is interlinked and interconnected.  Every day brings better chances.  Every day has lessons to be learned. I have to live in the now and be a Nowist.  This is the only place I will be better off.  Now is all I have and I have to treasure it.  I cannot change what has happened but I can change what is happening in my present, the now.  I cannot go back to the past and make a new beginning but I can start over an

When I pass judgement is like I am holding a gun and start shooting at others.  My words to judge others are the bullets.  They will definitely injure another or could even kill.  Nothing in life causes more pain and suffering than the judgements that I hold about and against others. I need to learn to hold my judgement and, at best, to keep my judgement to myself.  I should not be a loose cannon.  Being judgemental blocks my spiritual growth.  Every time I choose to judge others, I am forgetting about their true stories, about their frustrations and their pains. In reality, all humans are struggling.  What good am I trying to achieve should I judge them without knowing their stories?  Am I better than them?  If yes, how much better? Most judgement is destructive.  When I judge others from my negative perspective, I am doing it to  make myself better.  What I do not realize is that I lack empathy.  That, my ego is bigger than my soul. Should I think deep, every time I judge others, it

Should I fail today, it does not mean that I will fail tomorrow.  When I am feeling low today, it will be another emotion the next day.  Hopefully, a joyful one.  I must not let life throw me off track.  There is always something much more to life than what it is.  Life is always about changing.  Nothing ever stays the same. Whatever I am experiencing today is to make me a better person.  It is important that I encourage myself to let go.  When I let go, I can move on.  It shall unload all burdens, forgive them and look at the brighter side.  Only to let go the past, and embraced it with love, that the weight of the world is lifted off the shoulders. Moving on transforms for the better when I am accepting my errors, my mistakes and my wrong doings.  I have to take ownership to forgive the experiences.  It is very important to forgive.   Moving on will allow me to refocus, gain clarity and to make me prepared for the next chapter in life.  Life has a beautiful way of opening doors when

Every human has light in him or her.  Every human is filled with divine gifts.  Every human life is worth the same.  I may not know it but the divine light within me can be, unconsciously, a guiding light for others.  It can hold a place to let them see their paths. The beauty in every human is the wonderful gift he or she possesses.  This gift is a great service for spiritual growth, to connect to the inner soul.  It is a gift that helps one another.  It will be good should I know it.  When I have the knowledge that I can be of help to others, I become the light of the Divine. With such realization, I have to let myself be the signpost.  The sign that gives information, directly or indirectly, for others to have clear directions to take.  While I should not dictate the right direction for them, my role has to be limited only to provide on the various alternatives available.  I should not be involved with the freedom of choice options. I have to let there always be a bright spot in my

A state of living to be with peace eliminates fears and worries.  It is to remove all negative thoughts, stress, dissatisfaction and unhappiness.  When I am with peace, I build my self confidence and strength.  With peace, I am embracing my life. My mind, my soul, each desires peace.  I have to find peace in everyday life.  I have to know what does peace mean.  Having peace in my mind is a necessity for a happy healthy soul.  A peaceful life is mine when I remove my ego and I control my negative emotions. Peace is the result of training my mind to process life as it is.  My mind should not dictate what life should be.  I have to learn to accept, be kind and stop judging.  I have to let go, let God and find the wisdom to move on. Finding peace is a choice.  Many of my attitudes, habits and ways of life determine how much peace I experience in my daily life.  Balance is not only a thing I must achieve but it should also become a lifestyle. I have to be true to myself.  I must not pursue

The well being of my life is important.  There has to be a healthy balance between what builds me and what gives me life.  It is crucial that I am aware on what I can do and what I cannot do, at all times.  To focus too much on one area will lead me to neglect another one. I have to find a balance with all that life throws at me on a given day, or week.  While it is good to think that I can face it all, I need to acknowledge my limitations.  Living a balanced life means that I have to determine what is most important to me.  There has to be a balance in my emotion, financial, mental, physical, social and spiritual. A huge emphasis needs to be placed on the importance of maintaining balance in my everyday life.  No matter what the circumstances are, I have to prioritize on the responsibility that I must adhere to.  I have to do what is the most important and eliminate the things that are not. Everyday I need to spend my time and energy accordingly.  I should not let my body and mind be

I do not wish to let 2017 passed without saying something about it. 2017 had been such a catastrophic year!  God had designed it such.  It had to be a year to be forever remembered, respected and earning the courage to live on. 2017 was a year to expand my higher consciousness moving forward.  It opened a choice for me to grow.  The path for me to own. The path to accept and to live with what God had planned for me. 2017 was a year of deep great loss.  Yet it was also a year of blessing.  It is a year that was showing me the true definition on Duality.  The basic essence to the existence to Life - In its darkness, came the Light and in the Light, there was darkness.   In my grief, there was contentedness for his spirit "will always be with" me.  In my emptiness, I was showered and surrounded with love from family and friends.  I learned to live. Now that I am leaving 2017 and walk into 2018, I want to imprint it with gratitude.  The way I know best;