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From A Heart To Another

When I want to complain, I have to be mindful.  Complaining is an emotion signalling that I am unable to comprehend another's acts.  It is a lack of empathy on my part.  It is me jumping into conclusion.  Without full realization, it is the ego that says 'Hey, I am the good one.' When I am full of annoyance about something, I must step up.  Not doing anything will not improve the situation.  It is useless, and a wasted energy, to continue to express dissatisfaction and insisting not to let things go.  Complaining, definitely, is not going to harmonize any situations. Obviously I am affected when I am complaining.  What I am dismissing here, there are deep issues that I have not completely resolved within me.  It is always very easy to shift the blame elsewhere.  When I shift it, my ego does not get hurt.  This is the hard truth. Instead of complaining, I have four alternatives.   First:  I can stand up and I can voice up.  I can share what I think, though it may not be the

Everything Is Meant To Be

There is good in everything.  It is just how I choose to look at it.  Everything that has worth has a price.  Everything that happens is meant to be.  Everything happens for good reasons. Everything that I am experiencing, day by day, is teaching me something.  They are to let me to embrace life and to be a better person.  Every person I meet, every happening that is happening, has purpose.  A much higher purpose.   All I need to do, day by day, is to stay positive and think positive.  What's meant to be will always find a way. Life is tagged with Universal Laws.  It includes the Law of Cause and Effect, the Law of Attractions and the Law of Reflection.   Understanding them will make me positive.  Understanding them will let me to participate in life.  Understanding them makes me to flow with opportunities easier. There is no point in resisting when everything is meant to be.  I may not agree but eventually things will fall into place.  I am the creator of the life that I have been

Today Is A Good Day

Every day is simply another day.  While there is a Monday or Friday or Sunday, it is no more than another day.  While there is a change of date, a change of month or year, the sun still rises and it sets daily. What difference is how I make the day to be.  How my day shall be depends on the moment I greet it in the morning.  I have to begin each day with a grateful heart.  How it ends has to do with my conscious interactions at every moment. What do I want my day to be?  How do I want to spend it? What matters most is I remain happy and healthy, every day.  There has to be love and peace of mind.  Today, and every other day, I have to live to be nice, be kind, be humble, be useful and be real.  It would be good if I can be a blessing too.  These are values that I have to nurture.  Only when I give them to me that I can give to others. What matters most is that I remember to love myself more, before giving my love to others.  How I treat others is a reflection of my character. What matt

Once Is Enough

I only live once and when I can make things right, once is enough.  It does not matter what others think whether I have done anything at all.  Importantly, the good experience where I have gained makes me to move forward, with better feelings. It takes a good deal of courage and confidence to keep life going.  To persevere through challenges, good and the not so good, and ended with good feelings is an achievement.  When I am happy with my efforts, I must learn to accept I have done a good job.  That, in itself, already is a very grand accomplishment. The accomplishment comes from courage and confidence.  They go hand in hand.  One of the most courageous things I can do is to know who I am.  It is the confident in knowing my identity that I gain courage and strength. Life requires that I take charge of my responsibilities.  I need to have the commitment to smile in trouble, can gather strength from distress and grow brave by reflections.  When I do that, life grants joy, happiness and