The Blessed Life

Should I go by the principle 'when I point a finger at someone, there are three fingers point back', I should accept that, yes! only my fart smells.  This acceptance should wake me up.  I have to own this realization.  I should take full responsibility.  And, I should fully be watchful that the smell does not affect others.  My duty is that I must be aware of what I am doing.  I must take charge not to impose on others. I have to learn to be sensitive.  I have to learn to love the fool in me.  I must not fight but accept all my imperfections.  Any struggles are futile but God's love is constant. I have to learn to know.  Then, when I know, I have to learn to know better.  Perhaps, by then, I will also be able to do better.  That is what kindness is too. I have to, continuously, make me a better person with a good soul.  After all, the most important value of Life is the happiness of the soul, not anything outside of it. To God, I love You and "Thank You" for accep

When the going gets tough, the tough get going.  Yes, that should be how I live.  I have to believe in who I am.  I have to have faith that my life is guided and protected.  It is all in the mind and the more I stay positive, the easier life is. It is good to think positive.  All my troubles are to make me stronger.  All my troubles can be solved.  I should not give up.  Confucius says 'Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall'. If I cannot fly, then I run.  When I can't run, then I walk.  When I can't walk, then I crawl.  Whatever I do, I have to keep moving forward.  These should be how I am to live my life with my head up. The better me is not where I stand in moments of comfort and convenient.  But, it is where I stand at times of challenges.  As another saying goes, in which I have to live by it, 'You're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think'. When life gives me lemon, I shall mak

Few years back, I received this beautiful message from a very dear soul.  It reads 'Whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, just remember how far you have come.  Remember everything you have faced, all the battles you have won, and all the fears you have overcome'. This meaningful message gives me strength.  The message gives me the realization that everything is possible.  That, there are no happy days nor there are sad days.  There is always something good in every day.  Every experiences are how my mind wants to interpret them.  And, I must choose to stay positive every day. The only way to live a wonderful life is to face the day, with courage of love to live.  A strong person is when he or she feels the pain, understands it and accepts it.  Behind each pain, it is good to light up life with optimism. I should not live to be needy of my needs.  Others do not owe me nor do I owe them.  I should quit expecting anything in return.  It shall do me good not to li

Everything that I want to achieve has to start with day one of action.  It should not be a 'one day I will do it' or 'no action, talk only' attitude.  When I am not taking any action, I am telling the Universe that I do not have the full motivation.  That there is still a little doubt and I need more time to think things out. The Universe conspires to make everything I want to achieve happen.  The author, Paulo Coelho wrote 'when you want something, all the Universe conspires in helping you achieve it'.  But, when I delay a decision and waiting for that one day, the Universe will not make it to materialize.   Time and tide wait for no man.  I must learn not to slip an opportunity as it may never come again.  Great opportunity do not come everyday.  I need to recognize and seize it with every chance I get.  I need to put my wants, my desires into immediate action. To delay an action comes with a price.  The time between intention and action affects the experience