From A Heart To Another
When I want to complain, I have to be mindful. Complaining is an emotion signalling that I am unable to comprehend another's acts. It is a lack of empathy on my part. It is me jumping into conclusion. Without full realization, it is the ego that says 'Hey, I am the good one.' When I am full of annoyance about something, I must step up. Not doing anything will not improve the situation. It is useless, and a wasted energy, to continue to express dissatisfaction and insisting not to let things go. Complaining, definitely, is not going to harmonize any situations. Obviously I am affected when I am complaining. What I am dismissing here, there are deep issues that I have not completely resolved within me. It is always very easy to shift the blame elsewhere. When I shift it, my ego does not get hurt. This is the hard truth. Instead of complaining, I have four alternatives. First: I can stand up and I can voice up....