Acceptance Is The Way To Be Happy

 

Random Thoughts #24-004

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Perception, once it is dominantly in the processing thinking mind, brings life to a halt.  Perception without understanding kills progress.  Perception without communication divides relationship.  It changes all things which may not end in good way.

Perception is personal experience.  It navigates life with the way one thinks, where it may not hold life’s full truth.  It is, after all, a personal belief where the belief is of one's conviction (or, concoction?).

Should so-and-so think I am bad, no matter what, I will be bad in his perception.  In his mind, his emotional feeling towards me continues in bad ways.  I am, and will be, of nothing good to him.

Should so-and-so hate me, no matter what, nothing I do will be delightful in her senses.  In her mind, her emotional heart will remove any good light coming out from me.  My actions irk her, even the smallest.

Love, with strong attachment to an internalized perception, no longer exists but indifference rules.  It is the way perception altered on all types of exchange communication.

When this is to happen, I should not be affected.  Anybody and everybody have their perceptions and understanding on things.  Who am I to say that theirs are wrong and mine is right?  When I have that slightest thought or feeling to think I am right, I am a culprit using the perception to judge them.

Am I aware of this slightest sensation within me?  I learn nothing from life when I think I am right all the time.  What is right?

When this is to happen, what is the next best thing?  I need to learn to accept.  I need to honour his, or hers, thoughts and feelings.

In accepting, I must not feel hurt.  In accepting, I must not judge.  In accepting, I must learn to accept and be humbly grateful.  Any moment I feel hurt and I judge, I fail life miserably. 

Acceptance is on me.  It is about me to change, not others. To live the happy life, I must be happy to myself, no matter what.  I must be kind to myself, no matter what.  I must smile to myself, no matter what.  

Despite the pain I may feel, just be kind to others as they are not responsible for my misery.


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