The Blessed Life

The day I connected with my Inner Child, years back, my soul spoke.  For the longest time, I abandoned my Inner Child that let me to live rather a clueless journey.  Then, I used to feel of an unfamiliar emotion inside of me.   I used to wonder why did I have an emotional sense that I had a bleeding heart.  Why, when I was always laughing, felt loved and life was good, I felt something was amiss. Moving forward, the reunion with my Inner Child changes the psyche of my being.  It makes me to understand the buried emotional issues.  My Inner Child let me to go deep into inner works and transforms the ways of my life.  Like me, he has been longing to re-connect.  I have to be the one to initiate it. The conviction to walk with my Inner Child, for the rest of my journey, needs to happen.  It is happening.  It will do me good to return home with him, reunited and as one.  My Inner Child needs to feel that I am serious.  He need...

Peace is a state I want to attain.  Not only for myself, but for my loved ones and for the world I live in.  I am in love with peace.  I want it and I need it.  It has to live inside me as well as outside of me.   I genuinely wonder how lives can be when humanity lives in one truly peaceful world, with only love among us? Why is peace so important to me?  Peace gives me tranquillity.  It comes from the comfort in knowing that I have a roof over my head, food to eat and surrounded with loving family members and friends.   When I am with peace, there is a presence of good health, serenity, happiness, harmony and safety. Peace gives me great solace.  It helps me to be optimistic with everything that is happening with me, the good and those that are not so good.  To be at peace is simply to allow another to be, live, grow, expand, become.   It drives me to accept with everything and expect nothing, even though I may grumb...

My life is either a daring adventure or nothing.  I am not here to survive but I am here to find my freedom.  I am here to push all boundaries and to be the human I am supposed to be. I have to know life in its full multi dimension.  To know life in its richness and in all its varieties.  I am here to make things right and to find wisdom in my thoughts, words, deeds and actions. I should not just think but be proactive.  I should free myself from the burden of too much analyzing and thinking.  Too much analyzing can be paralyzing.   I am here to understand about responsibility.  To own the responsibility for anything and everything that is happening to me.  I must own all that I think, all that I say, all that I do and for all of my actions. I am here to become conscious with all that is happening around me.  I am here to find meaning and to understand my purpose.  I am here to undertake the tasks and finish them. I am here to find ...

I need to ignore the negativity that I cannot control.  I need to be present, mindful and grateful.  I need to treasure the moments I have in spite of everything else that may be happening around me.  When I do not, I am not appreciating life.  At the end of the day, everything that is happening to me is a gift. I should live above my pleasure.  I should make life my treasure.  Whatever is going around me is beyond my control.  I can only save myself.  I have to make the collective, conscious and concerted effort to focus on the positive pieces of my life. Let's face it, my life can end in a blink of an eye.  Knowing that, I should treasure each and every things that are important to me.  I need to treasure the people that make my days.   I have to treasure all the experiences for letting me be the person I am today.  The values of each individuals interacting with me along my way and all of my life experiences are unique ...

Should I want to achieve anything of value and meaning in life, I need to be consistent.  To succeed, there should be a desire to keep a constant momentum.  Being consistent is the difference between failure and success.  When I take any tasks lightly, there's a chance that I will simply give up half way.  Worse, I am losing myself on my own evolution and purpose of life. I have to be consistent in my endeavours.  There has to be conviction to gain greater insights and understandings.  The push has to come from within me, nobody else will be able to do it for me.   Like Rumi says 'It is your road and yours alone.  Others may walk it with you but no one can walk it for you'.  There is a feeling of inner peace and joy when there is constant purpose of doing things consistently. Consistency is an act of courage.  The courage to persevere and the bravery to know that things work.  It is about being regular and steady.  I have ...

I should not hang around with people who make me not who I am.  I should live for who I am and not by what others want me to be.  Pretending to be will only hurt my soul.  I should not mix around for the mere sake of appearing to be popular.  It is better to be authentic rather than about being good.  I have to be who I am.  I have to be where happiness is. But, before I get to know where I should be, I have to know what I want to be.  And, before I get to know what I want to be, I have to have the identity of who I am. Who am I?  Am I just this body?  Am I a label of my name?  Of my status?  Of my achievements and experiences?  Of what I have and what I do not?  What is my Self Identity?  Is there more to me than my physical image? When I introduce myself to others, how do I let them know who I am?  I can describe myself with my name, my occupation and my interests.  But they are all the physical aspects of...

The mind can be a friend or an enemy.  Very often, the mind relies on the past to predict for the future.  While the past is a good gauge to safeguard on my well being, it can also stop me from progressing.   As a human, I hinder my own growth by over thinking.  Sadly, the mind often tends to form an idea about something before it really knows much about it too. I have to look forward and not to be stuck in my past.  I have to dream big, the bigger the better.  When I set my goals higher and should they fail, I will fail not at the very bottom.  Aiming high gives me better results. I should not downgrade my dream to fit my reality.  Instead, I have to upgrade my conviction to match my destiny.  It is such conviction that motivates and pushes me to success.  When there is such a conviction, it accelerates my ability and builds bigger courage to handle all kinds of challenges in life. There is nothing wrong to think big.  When my...

The Universe sees all things as golden opportunities.  Everything she has, everything she offers, they are meant to make all lives better.  Everybody deserves and nobody is left behind.   She, who walks with the Divine, continually showers all lives with fullness.  Those who ask shall receive.  Those who have less have asked for less. It is my mind that consents to receive them to a greater or lesser extent.  In purely spiritual matters, Divinity grants all desires.  Divinity fills all wants.  It is me who is not able to fully comprehend on the gift of receiving.  The gift of receiving creates intimacy and expands consciousness. I have to receive everything with faith, with love and with joy.  Knowing it is an attitude.  I should not be receiving with doubts.  Doubts will sabotage the outcomes.  Doubts stem from past negative experiences and they will not give the clarity on where I want to go next. I have to choose....

Growing old is natural.  One cannot avoid it.  I should not be ashamed that I am getting old.  It is important to accept on the sequence of predictable process of life.  There is nothing to fear.  It shall be wise that I have the right attitude to face reality. For me to have quality golden years starts with the right mindset today.  Just like the computer, I have to start to defragment my thoughts and deleting unwanted files and data now.   I have to abandon all old beliefs, all old conditioning and programmings.  Should I not clean, delete and erase them, I will not get to live my golden years with better and mature perspectives. I should create a vision to see myself growing old gracefully.  More essentially, I have to teach my mind to accept changes and own them.  My mind has to keep finding meaningful activities continuously.  My mind has to stay sane.  My thought process should be reasonable and sensible. I want to l...

I believe it is good to be a Nowist.  When I am a Nowist, I live in the now.  The only way for me to function well, to stay sane and to be empowered is to function efficiently in the now.  What matters is now, not yesterday and not tomorrow. Being in the now makes me to be aware, and mindful, of what is happening at this very moment.  I shall not, and must not, be distracted by the process of continuously thinking on the past or to worry about the future.   My task is to ground myself in the here and now.  Here and now is the point between my past and the future. I have to comfort myself not to dwell on the past.  The past has left me and I can only use it to illustrate a point and to leave it behind.  Nothing really matters except what I do now in this instant of time. Tomorrow will be what I do today.  When I want tomorrow to be a better future, I have to start taking actions today.  I have to make today be the right day to love, ...