The Blessed Life

As life is unpredictable, every explanation about life is at no time complete.  Every accomplishment will present another new challenge.  Every better answers invariably raise new deeper questions.  The farther I get in life, the longer the road seems.  The higher I climb, the peak exceeds new height. My existent is not about winning.  Nor it has to be about failures or lost.  Life, at large, is to meet half way.  It has to be about balance.  It is the journey that counts and not the race.  To exist is to co-exist.  Creating a balanced life comes from within me.  I have to make time for things I have to do, as well as all the things I want to do. I cannot win them all but I have to create harmony between responsibilities and finding fulfillment.  I have to establish the importance of values and how these values fit towards the finishing line.  Doing so, I empower my personal health and well being. It is good to acknowledge...

My life is not free from errors and wrong doings.  The more I am judging others, criticizing their attitudes, their behaviours, their personality .. the more I need to correct myself.  The more I need to erase and delete all these data from accumulating inside me.  Else, I will be worst than them. I have to raise my awareness when my mouth, my mind is saying all the bad things about others.  I have to be conscious it is not them but it is my soul trying to tell me it is me.  These individuals are just the mirror reflection of who I am.  They are acting out the negativity within me and the Universe wishes I will get to reflect on my shortcomings. I should evaluate all the judgements I make.  I must think deep.  Energetically, much of them is an accurate judgement of the person I am.  Unfortunately, it is my ego that hides the truth and not allowing me to see.  My ego would very likely dismiss it too.   The more I am able to see it, t...

Don't hate but let it go.  Letting it go will turn love around.  Letting it go will have life greeted with peace.  When there is love, hate becomes indifference.  When the magnitude of hate is totally lifted, hate turns into understanding. Letting it go will put me to reflect without being pulled away by hate.  I should think of it like going on a meditative or spiritual retreat.  In this retreat, I will have the time and the space to uncover deeper feelings.  Hopefully, the retreat grounds my perception too. Hate is an ugly trait.  It will make me ugly on the inside. Hate starts with the attitude of intolerance with a deep emotional dislike.  It is a negative feeling against the object of the hatred.  Hate happens when I am not seeing things as they are but I am seeing things as I am. It also has to do with personal history, effects on personality, feelings, ideas and beliefs.  It has to do with self identity.  It has to do wi...

Souls connection is always special.  It can be beautiful when a soul talks to another.  It is a communication where it does not involve the ego but with the higher self.  It is using the inner voice to reach out to the inner voice of another being. Soul to soul communication is magical where it assists communication when words seem to fail.  At a soul level, there is no anger, no fear, no resentment but only love and understanding.  It is the connection at the highest, the purest. There is no judgement but acceptance, tolerant, comprehension and appreciation.  In fact, such negativity does not even prevail at the highest state of souls connection.  There is only deep and complete respect for being the divine lights on earth. Respecting another soul is important.  There has to be huge amount of respect for soul to soul communication to be effective.  Respect is the key for a deeper connection to take place.  With respect, there comes the ...

Real beauty exists inside the heart, not on the physical.  No amount of makeup or facial treatments can replace the beauty of the heart.  Together with love and light, the pure heart shines all beauty. When there is light of love in the heart, the soul of that individual captivates.  At the end of the day, I will not remember the person with the most beautiful face.  I shall remember the person with the most beautiful heart and soul. If it is not for human errors, all humans are beautiful.  For they are made from the light of God.  With light, there shall be good morals and positive mindset.  The light will lit the heart with compassion. It is not the experience, knowledge or skills but it is the heart that matters most.  To cultivate a beautiful heart, I have to honest.  I have to stop judging.  I must not hurt others on purpose.   I need to have open mind.  I have to respect others.  I have to maintain an awareness ...

When I want to listen to others, I must not make it about me.  I should not clamour for my voice to be heard.  My intellect, while I am listening to them, should not tell me I have better experience or knowledge.  I need to be aware not to let my ego to take over to control the situation.   Listening to others is attending to them and I should not be switching the topic by telling my stories.  And voicing unnecessary stories which are not related and have little reference.   I need to learn to listen by keeping quiet and avoid rattling off quick responses.  My mind and my heart have to be with them and allowing their stories to be digested into my consciousness. Real honest listening requires my whole heart, body and being.  It requires my presence.  When I am not consciously present, I am unavailable to listen, understand and connect. Listening to others is an attitude of the heart.  Is love.  Is respect.  Is kindness....

Words are energy.  They have powers and words spoken are the results of the thought process.  What I think about dictate what will be said.  Hence, it is very important that I get my thoughts organized.  It will be good that I have loving thoughts at all time.   As I talk with others, I have to speak the language of love.  Doing so will bring closeness.  Every word I speak matters.  My words can pour love, joy, comfort and clarity into the lives of the people around me.  Likewise, my words can hurt, humiliate and put others down.   I have to be constantly conscious to watch my words.  I have to spread love, respect and understanding.  My words have to be about building up relationship and not to make someone upset, angry or uncomfortable.  When my words are right, the tone will automatically compliment it. I have to recognize that people are listening to me when I am talking and speaking with them.  Wisely, I have to ...

There is a time for everything.  A time to play and a time to work.  A time to be serious and a time to be funny.  A time to be silent and a time to speak.  A time to keep and a time to let go.  A time to love and a time to be indifferent.   There is always day and there is always night.  There is the rain and the sunshine.  There is the dawn and the dusk. The course of human life is an interplay with choices.  That is the free will to live by.  Changes, from choices, are part of God's purpose for humanity.  Life is not an artificial proportion to be confined within prescribed notions.  Life is a gift to be celebrated and enjoyed. But, life calls for balance.  The options, with every alternatives, open up the possibility of simultaneously existing dimensions.  At each option, embrace it with understanding.  Grasp it kindly.  Accept it with appreciation.  Deal it with awareness.  Welcome it with mea...

As I grow old, I have to accept it gracefully.  Age is progressive.  The older I am, there is a tendency my life gets much better and more rewarding.  I should not be saying I am xx number of years young, when it should be 'I am xx years old'.  To regress in its truth will not do my body any good. My body cannot reverse the time but to move forward.  Acknowledging I am getting old is about acceptance.  With acceptance, my body embraces it and I should not succumb to be young when it is not.  To make my body thinks it is young, and not getting old, will force it to go against the flow of nature. Energetically, it is about staying in sync.  Old is old.  I cannot cheat my body and let it live not in tune with time.  My body needs to know that I am proud of it and I should not insist it is still young perpetually.  By not acknowledging it, I lack appreciation and awareness. Staying coherent is important.  Lying to my body that it i...

Loneliness, which is often regarded as social pain is not necessarily bona fide true.  Mother Earth, as she evolves richly, makes loners comfortable in their own world.  The world has come a long way and it has changed.   The Internet, for example, has become the great comforter and it offers it all.  The world becomes smaller as the Internet gets sophisticated. Human beings are social animals.  They depend on social groups for sustenance.  To some, it is about meaning.  Then, there are those who practice silencing their minds, whether through meditation or mindfulness, to find joy in solitude. When I take the silence pills, they balance between talking and listening.  The silence pills urge me not to talk too much, not to say too much but to listen.  Listening is the beauty of the soul.  Doing so, it glorifies love from the soul to manifest.   While the desire to be alone is regarded to be against nature, taking the silence pi...