The Blessed Life

Age is just numbers.  But, the bigger the number, the bigger is the room for errors.  Just like the old car, the engine gets slower and there is high tendency of frequent breakdowns.  No one can escape the aging process but one can age gracefully. While I cannot guarantee that I will be healthy with no health problems, I am wishing for a sane state of mind as I am getting older.  I pray to have positive mindset.  I pray that my thinking process is flexible with time.  Of course I do pray for good health too. Positive aging is important.  It is necessary that I adopt a positive view of aging as a healthy normal part of life.  I should not be stubborn and insist that I have more experience.  My mindset has to change and that I will do whatever is needed in order to continue with the flow of time. Getting older does not mean that I have to be respected.  Getting older has nothing to do with wealth of life experiences.  Getting older means my time has, indeed, change and what I know may no

It is not where I came from but it is where I am going that counts.  But, do I know where I want to go?  What is my end game, my intention and my purpose?  Am I in love with my journey thus far?  What on earth am I here for? I should live a purpose driven life.  It has to be a life that consists of motivating aims, that I have goals and sense of direction.  Finding purpose will make my life meaningful.  It would give me to take ownership and be fully responsible for my actions and reactions. I need to create a life purpose statement.  It shall put me on course towards exploring the things I love to do.  When I have purpose, very likely that I will feel good about the way I am living my life.  I might feel there is some ultimate reason for my actions. Life has to give me a sense of satisfaction and connectedness.  Where there is logic, it helps me to rationalize to reach for higher level of my well being.  Knowing where I want to go makes it possible for me to exist.   When I have a def

Life thrives when there is strong bond.  Bonding helps the mind to grasp the importance of good relationship.  Bonding promotes the development of connections between souls.  It is a sharing of quality time to provide a sense of belonging and security. The fast pace of modern day can make it easy to forget the importance of spending time with loved ones.  When I find time to bond, the quality of life improves.  Spending quality time strengthens and develops deeper understanding.  It fosters an environment for open communication. Bonding brings happiness, relieves stress and provides comfort and joy.  When there is a strong connection between souls, caring relationship takes place.  It is in the state of true connectedness that life blooms and success is possible. I should enrich my life to bond with my loved ones.  It is the relationship quality that really counts.  When I am in a quality shared moments, it benefits my emotional health alongside the relationship health.   Bonding incre

When there is peace within, there shall be peace all around.  A smile in one's heart brings a smile to the next person.  Energy is contagious.  Especially when the energy is from the light of a beautiful soul.  All darkness turns to light.   On the other hand, one ugly word from a disturbed mind can turn the light back into darkness.  The energy of such individual that sucks another can drain many beautiful lives. I have to learn to be a good human.  I have to be good to myself to be good to others.  Though it shall not be important how the world sees me, understands me, values me.  But, what is important is that I see myself, understand myself and value myself.  I have to see myself the way God is looking at me. A rainbow shall always be a rainbow even if nobody looks up into the sky.  I will still be a human even when I am hard with life.  Or, when my life is full of magnificent and sumptuous happenings. Constantly, I have to remind myself that my energy affects others.  This wor

I need to spend time everyday to reflect on who I am.  It will do me good should I am able to have adjectives to describe about me.  It is good that I write them down.   I have to be honest with all the bad and the good.  And, I need to admit that my attitude, behaviour or character is not all roses. I should not allow my ego to guide me when I am reflecting.  I have to be truthful to my soul.  I should not let my soul be lied just because I need to look good to others.  Or to make myself sound good with all the adjectives describing me. Everyday, I have to go through the list.  As I go through it, I have to take the time to reflect.  I need to think why I gain that adjective, or lack of.  The more I go through it, the more I can become aware.  Repetition is the mother of learning and that is how my consciousness shall evolve. This exercise will make me to find about myself.  About my sense of purpose.  When I discover who I really am, hopefully, I shall have the knowledge by what Aris

It is the self love that I have for myself that makes me fly.  It is the love that I receive from my family that makes me feel I am safe.  It is the love that my friends give that brightens my day to day tasks. Importantly, it is the love of God that I feel within me that lifts me up to where I belong.  The love from the Divine prepares me for the future while making shine on the present.  It is like the long and quiet river that uplifts life.  It is the love that breathes in the soul and sets for secured paths ahead. Love is powerful.  Self love is self worth.  God's love is heavenly.   When I live in the greatness of love, I shall have an undivided heart.  The experience is far reaching and overwhelming.  It is a life support system.  Without it, I will not succeed.   Love encourages and lifts me up.  It is magical and it is the wind beneath my wings.  I am certain that when I greet love with love, I will soar high.  When I follow the path of love, I soar higher.   Love changes l

When I can keep myself calm, when I can be patient, it is when harmony exists.  It is when understanding heightens.  It is when joy sneaks in through my life and peace celebrates.  It is when the divine light within burns brighter.  It is where I am surrounded with divine angels. Calmness provides a better way to deal with stress.  It avoids the possibility of any un-pleasantries, all the drama in life.  Staying clam allows my mind to think logically.  It makes me to make decision easier.  Clarity of mind is important to keep me safe and sane. Keeping calm is a bliss.  The soul opens up the avenues for solutions and letting it be with peace.  When I am at peace, the mind becomes insightful to make me to think clearly.  With calmness, I will learn how to develop patience. Patience enables me to analyze things and situations.  Patience is essential to daily life.  Having patience means I am able to act calmly in the face of frustration or adversity.  Patience is the pause button to help

Whatever that I want to do, I must do it with love and for love.  Even at the slightest smallest things.  When every actions are done with love and for love, the Universe bounces it back.  Every actions have an equal and opposite reactions. It is important that I do all tasks with my heart intact.  When I carry them out from my heart, God will guide me.  God will place love in motion, that's a certainty.  I will, in return, be happy knowing that I am honest with myself.  I will be stress free and have nothing to worry about because I do what I believe I have to do. However, when I do the tasks not with love and for love, and with half my heart, my actions get me nowhere.  Things will not usually end right.  There will be adverse consequences.  I should eliminate doing things half-heartedly should I not wanting half-hearted results. I need to instill the energy of love in my heart.  Certainly, when there is only love in the heart, I get to learn not to complain.  I must learn not to

I should not look back into my life with regrets.  Every moment I live is treasured.  Every person I engage with, every situation I face, every experience I go through, every argument and every laughter .. these are moments that have given me the meaning and purpose to life. I have to embody every minute of my life and welcome them.  I have to be happy.  I do not have to wait for something outside of me to make my happy.  I have to live every moment as if I am not going to get that back ever again.  Because in life, there are no rewinds.  Once a moment passes, it is gone forever. Life happens.  And, each moment is a gift.  It is a present and that is exactly how I should live too - to be in the present, always.  I need to take advantage of every single opportunity that comes along my way.  I have to cherish them, treasure them and turn them into beautiful memories. Life has moments and each moment is precious in its own unique way.  It will give me a lesson that teaches me something. 

The best way for me to predict my future is to create it.  What I plant today, the seed will grow.  It is the Law of Manifestation.  And, together with the Law of Gestation, the seed will turn to be a beautiful tree in times to come.  It is a beautiful tree because I want it to be. Whatever that I am creating, I have to nurture it.  I have to care and protect it while it is growing.  Perhaps, I may even want to empower it with a little prayer and feed it with faith so the Universe will work with me.  I have to let my conscious and sub-conscious minds to conspire with the future. That is how life works.  Whatever I am looking for, I will find.  Like the saying goes, 'I found the 10 acre lot because I was looking for the 10 acre lot'.  What I can hold in my heart, I can have it in my hands.  It is all about living in the possibility of miracles.   There is always miracle when I believe it.  I just have to believe it. Reality of life moves in the direction of my dominant thought.