The Blessed Life

  Life let me to live each day better than my last.  While I cannot fix back for what I have done yesterday, I have another chance to make things right today.  Yesterday is gone and it is gone for good.  But, today will make a difference should I allow myself to mend it.  The difference is in the way I react to it.  It is how I perceive with new dimension.  The difference will be in the knowing.  The difference is in eliminating the bad habit and let it become valuable lesson moving forward.    Loving on a new day must be my priority to live.  Top of the priority, I need to live to connect with myself, with my Higher Self and with the people I love and care much.  The objective is to strive for maturity in life, stability in relationship, loyalty on meaningful connection and peace till my end. It is awareness - it has always been about that.  Awareness has to be constant.  It has to grow with me, to put myself on the...

Should I am a good person, why is my life not perfect all the time?  Why am I not feeling peaceful indefinitely?  Why can’t I be happy constantly?  Why are there continuous recurring hiccups along the way?  What made these feelings fleeting? Getting old is one thing.  To get sick and weak, as age progresses, is natural.  But, while I am still not old old, why am I not having a steady balanced good health?  Why are my body and my health kept failing me? Have I pondered much about these questions?  Or, do I live in denial and insisted that I live with the good vibes the entire time?  Have I not wondered on my unpredictable fluctuating inner wealth?  Am I too arrogant to shrug off any indicative problematic signs on my belief system?  Does not my bad health or my anxiety teach me the life lesson? Who is right?  What is right?   Who is wrong?  What is wrong? So, here is my cry for help :   Should there be a huma...

Life.   What do I think of it?  What do I want out of it?  How do I want to live it?  What motivates me to live?  What truly drives me to succeed? Without knowing what life is and how I want it to be, life gets stagnant.  Worse, everything I do will be circle in the sand that goes round and round.  I am not allowing the light inside me to become brighter.  It is a disservice should I not let Life to grow to its full potential. My light has to guide me.  My intuition should be the legs to walk me.  My gratitude will be the golden key that opens all opportunities.  I have to take awareness seriously.  It is to realize on the consciousness towards my existence leading to a man’s search for meaning. Every day, I am faced with the never ending battle between what I feel and what I know.  There is a persistent stubborn voice of reason trying to fix what is not meant to be.  There is constant struggle against a heart that wo...

It was penned by one US President that ‘all men are created equal’. I do not have the wisdom to elaborate on it but that phrase, in itself, holds dear in my heart.  It makes sense to me.  It gives me the insight on how to live my life.  It gives me the assurance to hold sanity to my mind and soul. My success and my failure, in life, are my doing.  I have to take full responsibility and no one is to blame.  Blaming others for my mistakes only reflects on my shortcomings, my bad as a human.  It shows my inability to take charge on all my actions.  It reveals my poor, flimsy attitude and negative character. Should I succeed, or I fail, is because I am allowing it to happen.  It happens because I lose the sight that all Man is equal, that each human is born with equal potentials, with a pure soul.  In any of our imperfections, we are created equal.  When I acknowledge it, I will live a gracious life.  With such acceptance, I become soc...

Every day is a good day for a good day.  Each day is a day where life strives to teach me with new things, new lessons.  I must have an open mind.  It is good to anticipate the good things.  Opportunities, as they come, do not just happen.  I have to take each day to create them. Each day is teaching me how to live.  I have to teach myself to face it, with courage to begin and discipline to endure. I need to know what to choose between what I want and what I want most.  With such determination, victory becomes a matter of time. It can be a busy, tiring day.  Or, it can be a happy, peaceful day.  Or, it is a sad, lonely day.  How the day goes by, with each day, is a gift.  It is how I perceive and live it.  Whatever I need to face, it is important to experience the day with positive mindset. It will do me good should I wake up every morning with gentle reminder to myself.  I have to tell myself, and my Inner Child, that the...

To change life, I need to change what is inside of me first.   It has to be beautiful for it to get reflected beautifully on the outside world.  When I work to make myself better, everything else will take care of itself. To understand the future is a good thing.  To have goals in life is encouraged.  But, do I live looking at the future or do I live living in the past? I will not know how to love should I do not know the feeling of love inside me.  I will not know how to sing a good song should I not know what a melody is.  I shall be a winner, in life, when I make the best of everything. There is a difference between a good inside and a good outside.   Just as in the situation where some people talk to you on their free time or they take their free time to talk to you. It is important to learn the difference.  It is important to know the difference.  When I can be critical on myself, I learn I am not perfect.  When I learn to know...

'The apple does not fall far from the tree' , so it says.  It is a phrase to connect of who I am with that of my parents.  So here I am today, a living person of my family line.  I am grateful to be here.  I am thankful to my parents, their parents and their parents' parents.   The lineage - the family tree - would go on and on, all the way back to the beginning of creation.  I have the karmic relationship from my father and his side.  And, so does the traits - the attributes, the characteristics, the qualities - from my mother's side. I am a spark to the sum total to all of them.  I am the sum total of all their good and all their bad.  I have inherited their joy and pain, their love and hate, their success and struggle and their dreams and idiosyncrasies.  There shall be, and always be, something of them inside me.  It is the process of nature.  DNA is shared, it is passed down, like it or not, from them to me and every ...

  Should I want to live a peaceful life, I must learn to take responsibility on all my actions.  I have to own my words.  I have to be vigilant on my actions and reactions - and to make sure they are positive. Life is beautiful when I can no longer blame others for my errors, my mistakes.  Life is beautiful when I accept others to be my teachers.  Life is beautiful when I do not take things personal.  Everything in life and my relationship with others are about learning.  It is about my growth.  Should I take every thing personal - from what they want to tell me and from what they want to share with me - I will fail to be a human. I must learn to get rid of things that exhaust my soul.  I need to recognize what makes me happy.  I shall not pretend to be happy when I am hurt.  Yes, I will never able to heal if I keep pretending I am not hurt. Forgiveness is important.  I have to forgive myself should I am not able to forgive oth...

 Boy oh boy, it is sure a good feeling when I can blame others for my faults, for my mistakes.  It will make myself free from being seen as the bad guy.  The bad ones are them, not me.   My identity as the good guy has to stay in tact.  It has to serve my ego for the ego yearns to feel right at all times.  Yes, I have ego.  Don't you have it too? Shifting the blame saves me from explaining what is causing the problem.  The way of finding cause is to blame someone.  I do not have to defend myself nor will I be under attack.  My ego loves to think that I am not the problem, they are. Is this the way of life that I am proud off?  What good do I get when I am constantly putting others in bad light?  Why do I have to shift the blame and punish others?   Where is love, I wonder?  What happen to my conscience and do I have any? Enough is enough.   I have to stop the blame.  I need to learn to accept ...