The Blessed Life

There is beauty in silence.  In silence, there is an unspoken power.  Silence is not an easy task but when it is carried out, there will be clarity in the thought process.  There will be huge flow of peace within. Sometimes, in any communication, words are being said too much.  Sometimes, there is a tendency of over-explain.  It is the same with the mind that cannot be quiet.  A busy mind speaks thousands of words and it can fry the brain. It shall do me good when I can quiet my mind.  It shall be wonderful when I can switch off all the noises outside of me.  I have to breathe silence every now and then.  It is a way to rejuvenate my soul.  In silence, the soul shall speak. I have to be comfortable with silence.  Communication does not need words.  Non verbal language is a more powerful way of communicating.  It is the body language that speaks the loudest.  Non verbal communication is a powerful tool that connects one with another and builds better relationships. Silence is the source

Should I am able to write a book on all my bad habits, errors, mistakes and wrongdoings, there will be countless of chapters.  There will be thousands, if not more, of pages.  And, this does not include all the sins I made, and counting.  And, it does not cover all the lies too. I applaud those who have none and are living their lives clean.  I praise those who know how to lead good honest lives.  I understand should they want to alienate from me, or block me, for there shall be a clash with the law of attraction and vibration between us. I have to repent to make things good.  Not only for my soul but for the people I love.  I should feel guilty for having bad attitudes, bad behaviours and making my personality distrustful.  I have to forgive myself as much as I hope others will forgive me too. I need to contemplate and to stop my bad and negative ways of life.  It is good that I own them and be sorry.  The only way for a change to happen is when I completely realize and accept these t

Love makes the world go around.  Love is an emotion that empowers lives.  When I open my heart to love, it fills the heart with a sense of connection.  It feeds the deepest needs for meaning and purpose.  Love is a powerful way to bring trust and honesty. I can only give what I have in me.  I have to nurture love so that I am fully filled with it.  I have to have a stronger foundation within.  When I am full of love, it will overflow to the people around me.  It will allow me to share it with friends, with strangers and with those who need it.  It makes me to appreciate love on all creations. Love brings me back to my source, to a place where I find eternal peace, happiness and enlightenment.  Love is the only language understood by all humanity.  There is love within every beings.  It is invisible yet love is the most beautiful emotion.  It pushes me forward and makes me to overcome all my struggles. It is a feeling of one with my soul.  When there is love in my mental, physical, emot

Life demands that I fall in love with it.  When I am in love with life, everything becomes beautiful.  Life shall be good and any sufferings that I have to go through become bearable good lessons. I have to plant a paradigm shift and think "to suffer happily".  I have to see it positively so I have the determination to sail through.  The day I understand why I have to suffer, life gets better.  It gets easier.   Suffering is not about punishment but it is to make me human.  It makes me to appreciate the rewards life has to offer.  It gives me the opportunity to get to know what empathy really means. Death is not an if but when.  Death is unavoidable and inevitable and to choose to live is a wise choice.  Making the choice to live makes life meaningful.  In its consciousness, life turns into purpose, joy, love and everything that I ever wanted it to be. I should not shut my soul down.  Instead, I have to invest in myself.  There is no limit to the person I could become, no mat

As I am wishing or intending to achieve for something, I am actually making a prayer.  I am establishing a relationship with the Divine Creator, God.  I am reaching for the Divinity's Hand.  I am making a conversation so that I can be heard, so that my burden is lifted. My conversation with the Divine is the prayer.  I shall converse to make requests, to seek guidance and to ask for wisdom. Prayer helps me to open my heart to experience what life is all about.  It grounds me to accept that everything happens for good reasons.  As I sit to meditate and to silent my mind, I am connecting my soul to God.   In that connection, I pray and I surrender.  With that connection, I open my heart to trust and believe that the Divine power helps and heals. There is beauty in prayer.  It nourishes the soul.  It beautifies the energy body.  It calms the mind.  Prayer is not a technique of escape from conflict.  It is a stimulus towards growth in the very face of conflict.   It reduces the feeling

Life is such that when I judge another, I do not define them but I define myself.  It is like looking at myself in the mirror and what I see in others is what is in me too.  Obviously, I get backfired.  Can I accept it? By making a subjective judgement about another person, I am not revealing a truth about him or her but a truth about myself.  In most cases, judging another is an act to make me feel better about myself.  What I do not realize, when I judge others, I voluntarily dim my own divine light. Passing a judgement is easy.  Many times, it happens in small subconscious way without realizing it.  Worst is when I think worldly of myself where I assume that I am better than most.   It makes me to think that my perspective towards life and people are more spot on.  Such thinking puts me to keep making assumptions. Why am I so quick to judge and label others, when it is said that nobody is perfect?  I need to train myself to be broad minded.  To be that, I need to be kind and learn t

Dear Self, it does not matter what everyone else thinks.  Should someone want to judge me, that is his/her choice.  What matters is I can look in the mirror and love who I see.  While that is self love, I have to see far beyond that.  I have to see, and feel, the divine spark from that image.   A true soul is not about the physical beauty but one that exudes in the name of Love, of one with God and of being human.  The real beauty is the union of a beautiful heart and a positive spirit.  Beauty is not about how I look but how genuine I am at heart. I have to love my life, because I am a product of Love.  It is important that I remind myself to do that, no matter how hard life can be.  No matter who tries to teach me lessons about life, I will not be able to understand it until I go through it on my own.   Life is best measured by experience, not so much by knowledge.  The great thing that shall come out of that, from the experience, is what I become of it. Everything has beauty and not

Why is it hard to accept criticism?  Why do I see it as an act of insult?  Why do I feel hurt when my actions are being commented?  Am I so perfect that no one has the right to correct me and voice their harsh opinions?  Nonetheless, there is a thin line between giving constructive criticism and throwing under the bus.   Should I want to change, I should take criticism with an open mind.  I have to accept it constructively, positively.  This is one way that I can make things right for me.  It is how I will be able to see and realize on my weaknesses.  On my errors and mistakes. When my actions are being commented, I should acknowledge it as helpful feedback.  I should not get too personal on the remarks when the (higher) intention is about a change.  I can learn from criticism.  Being humble goes a long way.  There is no need to be angry nor be resentful. The more I get defensive, how else would I identify my weaknesses?  Learning to accept constructive criticism helps me.  When someon

Where there is love, there is life, a beautiful life.  Love gives the will to live.  Love makes no excuses and there shall be no excuses.  There will always be time.  Everything is beautiful.  Everything is possible.  Everything is good.  Love makes life better. On the other hand, where there is not enough love, excuses become norm.  There will always be something to explain just so it sounds right.  Something needs justification.  Excuses prevent me from living the life I want.  When I keep giving excuses, I am not giving life the chance to grow. When I am late for an appointment, for example, it is because I do not give enough effort to be early.  There is not enough excitement and there is not enough love to do so.  Unconsciously, it has to do with my hesitation and reservation to participate.   It has to do with my never mind attitude.  Bottom line, there is not enough love for me to give respect to another soul. Giving excuses should not be the way of life.  It makes me to be comp

It is not the end of the world yet.  And since I am still able to breathe and my journey on Mother Earth has not ended, I have to remind myself of who I am with the remainder of my time left.  I have to be thankful that I have come this far.  I have to make sure that I continue to build better principles, with good moral and ethical mindset. There has to be a reason, good reason, I am still continuing on this borrowed time.  I must not let it slip away.  I should not take it for granted as I will never know when it is my time.  It has to be spent constructively with raised awareness and consciousness. Everything is build on love.  It all comes down to love.  I have to know what love is.  I have to have love in my actions, with my words and in my heart and in my mind.  I have to be good and kind.  I have to live my life honestly.  I have to demonstrate what I can do on my own before it is taken out of my hands. Do I have love in me?  I have to know it, feel it and live by it.  It is the