The Blessed Life

A home is a sanctuary, a place of refuge and safety.  It is a home that nourishes the souls.  It should be a place of peace.  It should be the place where the souls find true comfort.  It is a heaven on Mother Earth. I should not treat my home as a hotel, just for me to sleep in.  I must not neglect the duty to clean it.  I should not leave the tasks of house cleaning and house keeping to the helper or a maid.  I have to be part of it.  It is what I do to the house, not with the help of the helper or a maid, that gives a direct expression to the state of my mind. Things in the house have to be organized.  They have to be neatly tidied up.  Just like a child who observes the parents to gain life lessons, the house watches the owners too.  It gives its blessings when the owners play their roles.  The energy that I put in into the house is returned back to me, accordingly. Everything there is in the house is because of something the owners do.  Whether it is the picture that I hang in the

I need to look into my life and question myself whether I dominantly think negatively or positively?  Do I spend time creating barriers or finding ways to get through them?  I know, and accept, that I am not perfect.  Such, in my life, there is always something to improve on. Life is always full of opportunities.  It has no boundary and the only boundary is on the way I think.  When I draw a line, I am limiting what I can achieve.  When I draw a line, I am not open to opportunities.  When a line is drawn, I narrow down all favourable circumstances. When I dream for a big house, for example, I have to focus on the joy of owning it and all the blessings.  I should not be thinking 'Oh, it is such a big house and I will be spending all my time cleaning' or 'Oh, this big space will harm my body'.  When I set boundary, the Universe will not provide nor will she conspire with my dream. To live a beautiful life, I must learn not to let my assumption set the reality.  The nature

A message was posted in a social media group and it makes me thinking.  It makes me wonder how egoistical am I?  Would I be able to realize and admit that I am one?  Am I that sort that must win at all costs rather than I do my best and just be humble?  Do I easily blame others when things don't go my way? The message reads 'Leave the ego, otherwise everyone leaves you'.   Even when everyone is to leave me, I have to live a humble life.  I have to find ways whether my arrogance is slowly putting people off?  Do I constantly talk about myself and brag all my family's greatest achievements and not asking others how they are?  Being humble will make a difference in the lives of all humans. I have to analyze my thoughts.  Do I feel superior to others?  Do I feel inferior to others?  What do I need to do to feel equal?  There has to be a way that I can self reflect.  Should I dismiss not to analyze my thoughts, I can become self centered. Too much arrogance will not make me

I have to welcome all the good things in life.  I welcome positive things as they make me joyful.  They make me to appreciate life.  They generate more positive things. I welcome peace.  Inner peace allows me to confront life with an open heart and mind.  It helps me to keep track of what is important.  It eliminates negative influences.  Peace resolves all conflicts without violence. I welcome love.  Love solidifies my desire to be human, a good human.  Love creates a sense of harmony in any forms of relationship.  Love inspires and it motivates me into doing something good for my growth and well being. I welcome happiness.  Happiness boosts major benefits for my health.  It helps my emotional mind, mental mind, physical mind and spiritual mind to function better.  Happiness makes me to be satisfied with who I am, with what I have. I welcome good health.  I must learn to treat my body with love and respect.  With good health, anything is possible.  Without it, I cannot live life to it

Age is just numbers.  But, the bigger the number, the bigger is the room for errors.  Just like the old car, the engine gets slower and there is high tendency of frequent breakdowns.  No one can escape the aging process but one can age gracefully. While I cannot guarantee that I will be healthy with no health problems, I am wishing for a sane state of mind as I am getting older.  I pray to have positive mindset.  I pray that my thinking process is flexible with time.  Of course I do pray for good health too. Positive aging is important.  It is necessary that I adopt a positive view of aging as a healthy normal part of life.  I should not be stubborn and insist that I have more experience.  My mindset has to change and that I will do whatever is needed in order to continue with the flow of time. Getting older does not mean that I have to be respected.  Getting older has nothing to do with wealth of life experiences.  Getting older means my time has, indeed, change and what I know may no

It is not where I came from but it is where I am going that counts.  But, do I know where I want to go?  What is my end game, my intention and my purpose?  Am I in love with my journey thus far?  What on earth am I here for? I should live a purpose driven life.  It has to be a life that consists of motivating aims, that I have goals and sense of direction.  Finding purpose will make my life meaningful.  It would give me to take ownership and be fully responsible for my actions and reactions. I need to create a life purpose statement.  It shall put me on course towards exploring the things I love to do.  When I have purpose, very likely that I will feel good about the way I am living my life.  I might feel there is some ultimate reason for my actions. Life has to give me a sense of satisfaction and connectedness.  Where there is logic, it helps me to rationalize to reach for higher level of my well being.  Knowing where I want to go makes it possible for me to exist.   When I have a def

Life thrives when there is strong bond.  Bonding helps the mind to grasp the importance of good relationship.  Bonding promotes the development of connections between souls.  It is a sharing of quality time to provide a sense of belonging and security. The fast pace of modern day can make it easy to forget the importance of spending time with loved ones.  When I find time to bond, the quality of life improves.  Spending quality time strengthens and develops deeper understanding.  It fosters an environment for open communication. Bonding brings happiness, relieves stress and provides comfort and joy.  When there is a strong connection between souls, caring relationship takes place.  It is in the state of true connectedness that life blooms and success is possible. I should enrich my life to bond with my loved ones.  It is the relationship quality that really counts.  When I am in a quality shared moments, it benefits my emotional health alongside the relationship health.   Bonding incre

When there is peace within, there shall be peace all around.  A smile in one's heart brings a smile to the next person.  Energy is contagious.  Especially when the energy is from the light of a beautiful soul.  All darkness turns to light.   On the other hand, one ugly word from a disturbed mind can turn the light back into darkness.  The energy of such individual that sucks another can drain many beautiful lives. I have to learn to be a good human.  I have to be good to myself to be good to others.  Though it shall not be important how the world sees me, understands me, values me.  But, what is important is that I see myself, understand myself and value myself.  I have to see myself the way God is looking at me. A rainbow shall always be a rainbow even if nobody looks up into the sky.  I will still be a human even when I am hard with life.  Or, when my life is full of magnificent and sumptuous happenings. Constantly, I have to remind myself that my energy affects others.  This wor

I need to spend time everyday to reflect on who I am.  It will do me good should I am able to have adjectives to describe about me.  It is good that I write them down.   I have to be honest with all the bad and the good.  And, I need to admit that my attitude, behaviour or character is not all roses. I should not allow my ego to guide me when I am reflecting.  I have to be truthful to my soul.  I should not let my soul be lied just because I need to look good to others.  Or to make myself sound good with all the adjectives describing me. Everyday, I have to go through the list.  As I go through it, I have to take the time to reflect.  I need to think why I gain that adjective, or lack of.  The more I go through it, the more I can become aware.  Repetition is the mother of learning and that is how my consciousness shall evolve. This exercise will make me to find about myself.  About my sense of purpose.  When I discover who I really am, hopefully, I shall have the knowledge by what Aris

It is the self love that I have for myself that makes me fly.  It is the love that I receive from my family that makes me feel I am safe.  It is the love that my friends give that brightens my day to day tasks. Importantly, it is the love of God that I feel within me that lifts me up to where I belong.  The love from the Divine prepares me for the future while making shine on the present.  It is like the long and quiet river that uplifts life.  It is the love that breathes in the soul and sets for secured paths ahead. Love is powerful.  Self love is self worth.  God's love is heavenly.   When I live in the greatness of love, I shall have an undivided heart.  The experience is far reaching and overwhelming.  It is a life support system.  Without it, I will not succeed.   Love encourages and lifts me up.  It is magical and it is the wind beneath my wings.  I am certain that when I greet love with love, I will soar high.  When I follow the path of love, I soar higher.   Love changes l