The Blessed Life

While I may want to think that I am on the right path, I also have to know that it is not the only path.  Regardless the destination, all roads lead to Rome.  Everything plays a central role to take me on.  All that I need to focus is what do I really want.  Wherever my heart is, I will find the appropriate value for me, by me. Life is constantly evolving.  It changes and developed into another form over time.  Life is as simple as ABC and it is the  A-wareness B-efore C-hange that sets the tone.  Awareness is the big key for change to be efficient and effective.  When there is awareness, the process of life becomes better and everything around me becomes better too. Life attracts life.  I have to watch my thoughts.  I have to listen to my words.  I have to observe my deeds.  I have to be aware of my actions.  I should have good judgement on my reactions.    When I want something, all in the Universe conspires in helping me to achieve it. I think positive, I become positive.  I think n

When my mind is foggy and I am riddled with indecision, the day will not end up making me feeling good.  Without mental clarity, it is hard to make choices that can get me to where I want to be.  Without it, I feel aimless and it is easy to feel lost constantly. Mental clarity is indeed and important part of keeping my life in balance.  It helps me to maintain my focus and a clear state of mind.  When I have mental clarity, my mind shall not be clouded with indecision, with all the what-ifs.  Nor would I be overwhelmed and getting worry unnecessarily. When my mind is clear, I can see life better.  It helps me to find focus and direction.  I will be able to accept situations as my mind knows that I am able to handle them.  With a clear mind, I don't get to worry what could go wrong. I have to feed my mind for my mind to feed my thought process.  With a good thought process, I appreciate my life.  I will get to see how blessed I can be.  The situations that make me to feel stress wil

When I think that I am constantly right, I am lacking a sophisticated divine mind.  When I believe that I am perpetually good, I am fooling myself.  When I am filled with pride, then I have no room for wisdom. Which side of my mind, or my heart, do I normally swayed?  Have I been neutral at all times? There is a thin line between being humble and acting with arrogance.  It is not easy to recognize between the acts of love and imposing on someone.  Pride and foolishness walk together, almost in perfect conspiracy. I have to find ways towards a heart-mind balance.  I have to handle the various elements in my life and not to feel that my heart and mind are being pulled hard in any direction. My mind is always challenging myself intellectually verses creating opportunities for my mind to rest. My heart has to be in full clarity between giving love verses receiving love. There has to be a balance between these two spectrums.  Both ends of each spectrum are breathing life but they can also e

Before I can love somebody, I have to learn to love myself first.  When I am in love with myself, I will know what love is and will love others better.  I get to feel and be acquainted with the good feeling.  I will learn about acceptance, conviction, respect and the act of caring and giving. Loving myself, with all my imperfections, will make me to appreciate all others.  It gives me lessons that I have to treat others with dignity.  Not because I merit it but because I learn in thoughtfulness.  Love is about being thoughtful, about a deep sense of care and commitment. I have to be the energy of love to love another.  Unconditional love does not need nor should there be a reason to love.  When I am full of love, it is easier and freer to share.  It gives me the ability to see the What-is and then the What-could-be.  Basically, it opens my world to see the bigger picture. Without love, what will I be?  Can I be peaceful without love?  Will my life be happy without love?  How safe and h

To encounter self realization is a greatest gift from heaven.  When it comes knocking, I have to embrace and act on it.  I have to be grateful and own it.  My mind must not ignore it.   I should not dismiss it as it may not come easily the next time.  Self realization remains hidden and dormant because my mind is full of false beliefs that cloud my perception of reality. Self realization has to be realized.  It paves the path towards improvement.  When it happens, it allows me to understand and evaluates my real 'Self'.  Being aware of 'Self' is the toughest of all knowledge.   There are many things I can learn in life.  But, my mind has to wake up and the learning has to be realized.  Only when I am able to realize it that I get to know my soul and its true purpose.   It reconnects with who I am.  It is a process of knowing myself at a higher level.  It makes me to become aware to understand the 'Self'. Self realization is a profound feeling of awakening.  I ne

I have to let go all attachments to label and status.  So what if I have a good career, good education, thousands of followers on social media.  Or I drive a big car.  Or I live in a big house.  Having too much pride will not guarantee that I can be humble.  Having too much pride, very often, clouds judgment. Man, in general, is not capable to stay on top forever.  How smart a squirrel is to jump from one tree to another, one day it loses control.  There is a limit for everything.  It is just the law of physics.  Pride will take me nowhere.  Pride is the death of a thinking mind that drains life completely. It is important that I stay humble.  Being ignorant to think that I am better, that I think I know much more, can lead me to my downfall.  When pride takes control, there is no room for acceptance.  At its worst, there is a refusal to accept any other person's point of view. I must not be jealous over someone else's success.  When there is jealousy, pride destroys relationsh

It is important that I keep my sanity well.  It is important that I recognize the signs of stress.  I have to reduce stress so that I can be at ease with my mental health.  I have to learn to move out stressful situations so that life is beautiful. Stress left unchecked can cause all sorts of physical ailments.  The more I control my stress, the healthier I become and the better I do at decision making and communication.  Every now and then, I must learn to stop thinking and just breathe and live. In order to maintain my sanity, I have to learn to stop over thinking.  I have to live in the present moment.  I have to stop living in the past and I must not live in my future either.   I have to focus on solution with self belief rather than dwelling on problems.  I must remember that I can always control what goes on inside of me. I have to discover the importance of maintaining my mental health.  Happiness is important.  When I take care of my mental health, I am securing my own well bei

To believe is important.  My well being counts on it.  When I truly believe in some things, it shapes my values, my life.  It influences on my actions to become pro-active.  In deciding how to act, it matters very much what I believe in. However, to believe can be tricky too.  It has to be some forms of well judged beliefs.  It has to make sense to me.  I should not force myself to believe some things that are against my conscience.  Or, some things that are at odds with my philosophy in life. To believe does not change reality.  But, it changes the perception of reality.  Perception is a crucial part of how I react to my surroundings and how I interact with people.  To believe is to have confidence in the truth. Believing is not about a wish or a hope to change anything.  It is a condition about acceptance.  It is a catalyst to transform so that I can act purposefully.  A belief system shapes the outcome to life and it creates structure to opportunities and possibilities. My values in

I have to be thankful with whatever that I have, however small it may be.  Even though I may want a little bit more, or a little better, I should not be full of greed.  I should not let greed get the best of me.  I must not let it consume me. I have to know why I want more.  I have to strive hard to earn things but not be greedy.  Do I want more out of greed or necessity?  While it is good to strive to improve and to have a little more but to be greedy is another thing.  Greed does not know how to maintain boundaries.  It compromises moral values and ethics. When there is greed, it makes me to ignore the love I have in favour of what I can never attain.  Greed becomes a problem when I have enough and are willing to do nearly everything to achieve even more.  Greed does not make me to be contented with what I have.  My needs should be limited and my wishes should be in control. The energy of greed is a bottomless pit.  It exhausts an endless effort to satisfy the need without ever reach

As much as I want my life to be smooth sailing, I should not be alarmed that life can also throw difficult scenarios at me when I least expect it.  It is the reality of living a life on Mother Earth.   Everything that exists has a purpose, or more.  Everything there is to life is about teaching me with lessons. To survive the journey in my life, it is good that I do not give up on hope.  I have to turn everything that I am experiencing into positive.  I have to accept that life has its ups and downs.   These are trials of life that I cannot avoid.  They are designed to make me to be a better individual. Having hope gives me the courage to think that things would get better with time.  Hope is the only energy that keeps things moving forward.  Hope gives the strength and ability to bounce life back from whatever obstacles. To have hope is a want, something to wish for, to make life better.  It helps me to stay focus to pass through a tough situation more bearable.  Hope opens up the fut