The Blessed Life

A state of living to be with peace eliminates fears and worries.  It is to remove all negative thoughts, stress, dissatisfaction and unhappiness.  When I am with peace, I build my self confidence and strength.  With peace, I am embracing my life. My mind, my soul, each desires peace.  I have to find peace in everyday life.  I have to know what does peace mean.  Having peace in my mind is a necessity for a happy healthy soul.  A peaceful life is mine when I remove my ego and I control my negative emotions. Peace is the result of training my mind to process life as it is.  My mind should not dictate what life should be.  I have to learn to accept, be kind and stop judging.  I have to let go, let God and find the wisdom to move on. Finding peace is a choice.  Many of my attitudes, habits and ways of life determine how much peace I experience in my daily life.  Balance is not only a thing I must achieve but it should also become a lifestyle. I have to be true to myself.  I must not pursue

The well being of my life is important.  There has to be a healthy balance between what builds me and what gives me life.  It is crucial that I am aware on what I can do and what I cannot do, at all times.  To focus too much on one area will lead me to neglect another one. I have to find a balance with all that life throws at me on a given day, or week.  While it is good to think that I can face it all, I need to acknowledge my limitations.  Living a balanced life means that I have to determine what is most important to me.  There has to be a balance in my emotion, financial, mental, physical, social and spiritual. A huge emphasis needs to be placed on the importance of maintaining balance in my everyday life.  No matter what the circumstances are, I have to prioritize on the responsibility that I must adhere to.  I have to do what is the most important and eliminate the things that are not. Everyday I need to spend my time and energy accordingly.  I should not let my body and mind be

I do not wish to let 2017 passed without saying something about it. 2017 had been such a catastrophic year!  God had designed it such.  It had to be a year to be forever remembered, respected and earning the courage to live on. 2017 was a year to expand my higher consciousness moving forward.  It opened a choice for me to grow.  The path for me to own. The path to accept and to live with what God had planned for me. 2017 was a year of deep great loss.  Yet it was also a year of blessing.  It is a year that was showing me the true definition on Duality.  The basic essence to the existence to Life - In its darkness, came the Light and in the Light, there was darkness.   In my grief, there was contentedness for his spirit "will always be with" me.  In my emptiness, I was showered and surrounded with love from family and friends.  I learned to live. Now that I am leaving 2017 and walk into 2018, I want to imprint it with gratitude.  The way I know best;

There is always an unspoken great feeling after spring cleaning.  There is a big surge of energy being uplifted.  For that matter, a clean and uncluttered environment brings a heightened sense of joy and peace.  It invigorates the feeling of renewal, of refreshment and vitality. This very similar good feeling is how my thought process can experience too.  My thought process has to adapt with time.  It is not wise to live with old beliefs that are no longer applicable with current times.  These old beliefs stagnate my growth.  They fill me with hesitation and stop me from adjusting to new conditions. When there is too much stagnated old beliefs, I am stuck with old conditioned ideas.  Such, I keep living in my past.  This is the reason why I feel that I do not get ahead as quickly as I would like to.  The world where I live in today has evolved.  It has definitely changed and it will not revert to what it was before. I have to 'spring clean' my mind and not keeping to add new st

Everyone has a path to walk.  As an individual, I have to decide what I am here to do.  I have to find the meaning of my existence.  I have to learn to live my own life and find the purpose. I have my own story.  I write my own story.  Just like me, others are doing exactly the same thing too.  Each one of us is learning to make things good.  Each one of us is making efforts to survive.  To live our life right, inspired by love and guided by knowledge. Like them, I have to take charge.  I have to take full responsibility for my growth and own all the decisions I make.  When I succeed, it is the effort that I put in.  When things fail, it has to do with my choice. Others will be my teachers.  They are the mirrors to my soul.  Our existence is to inspire and help each other indirectly.  I have to recognize that I am a part of the big thing.  Without them, I will not know how to love myself.  Without them, I will not be able to know what is good and right for me. Though my main task is to

Self talk is important.  It frames self perception.  It is my internal dialogue.  It is what I am thinking about.  It is the source of my emotions and mood.  The conversation that I have with myself can be either destructive or beneficial. I have to listen to my inner dialogue.  I need to hear what my mind thinks of me as it plays a big role of who I will be.  Am I supportive of myself?  Am I critical or negative?  Are there dominant thoughts that keep replaying?   My mind is the verb and my life is the noun.  My mind influences how I feel about myself and how I respond to events in my life.  It is important that I engage self talk in a positive way and not to compound negative thoughts.  I should cultivate positive self talk to increase self confidence and motivation. I am not perfect but I have to love the light inside of me.  To love myself, I have to banish my inner critic.  I have to learn to love my soul.  I have to learn to have productive positive inner conversation.  What I th

It is very easy to tell myself to be happy and not to worry.  To accept things as they come but it can be a little hard to do it.  At times, it can be a little painful to surrender to the works of the Divine and let life flows with the flow.   I need to accept life for what it is and learn to have trust and faith.  I should not resist the flow of life.  I have to embrace it and get myself to open to things that come.   I have to acknowledge my reality. Sometimes facing reality is not the easiest thing but accepting the situation can make me be happier.   Understanding, accepting and embracing reality is practical and purposeful.  Failing to connect with reality breeds unnecessary worries and not getting me to be happy.  It is important that I own any outcomes, the bad and the good.  For everything that is to happen has its own good reasons. Repetition is the mother of all learning.  It is good that I keep reminding myself to be strong, to be happy and not to allow fear to get in my way

To be in love with myself is not self indulgent.  It should not be seen that way nor it is a cheesy thing.  Learning to love myself is a powerful and important thing I can do in life.  My soul is the driving force and when he becomes the source of love in my life, everything changes. It will be a happy life, it will be filled with peace.  That is exactly what happened when I start to love myself.  My world, my relationship with others, my dreams, my health, they all flourish.  The Universe will celebrate my existence and I shall move along according to my energetic vibrations - like attracts like. I have to create the Me time daily, the more the better.  It will be my sacred moments.  I have to be positive, be an energy giver and not otherwise.  The Irish poet, Oscar Wilde once said, "To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance".  Do I want to start the romance?  How shall I learn to love myself? The Covid pandemic teaches me the beauty in getting to know the Me in

I trust that the little gentleness I give will bear many fruits.  I trust that all my little prayers I make are heard.  I trust on walking this unknown unscripted journey.  I trust, in full recognition, that it is for good. 'Trust' is a calling from within.  It is no longer about looking for inspiration but of a spiritual conviction.  It requires a leap of faith. Above all, I must trust that God has never abandoned me.   Above all, I must trust that God will never give me anything that I cannot handle. To live I must have faith. Yes! it is the 'must' that sets the tone.        I must make myself a vessel, an empty vessel that is ready to receive.  I must make myself an instrument, a useful instrument for all the divine works.  I must brighten my light, the divine spark that is luminating within me.   I must nurture the seeds of faith, the love seeds within me that propel life in motion.  I must feel and recognize the blessings as I reach for Divinity's Hand. Is it n

Differences arise when I cannot make peace with the opinions of others.  When I cannot agree to disagree.  When my ego keeps telling me that I have to be right, and not them.  Where my self righteous attitude demands that I am better, and not them. I need to learn the art of making a compromise.  Harmony has to be, foremost, in my heart and it has to be the way I should live my life.  I need to learn that my intellect is actually limited and not to let my arrogance run free.   I have to know there is no right and there is no wrong.  It is just my opinion verses someone else's opinion. How I deliver that opinion could make the difference.  All ideas are just ideas and I should not discard ideas as 'bad'.  Idea is an inspiration and it has the element of no right or wrong.  Idea is only a different path to open the mind.  It is an innovation, a consideration, as a guide to make things better. What I think is right is not the same as what others think is right.  I should not i