The Blessed Life

When I earnestly clean on my past, I erase the errors.  The more I clean, more errors get erased.  Cleaning let me to delete my unwanted data.  It helps me to remove unwanted past beliefs.  It expunges past values so that I can be free and to start anew. Why do I want to clean?  The purpose is to heal the past and that I get to forgive myself.  Cleaning allows me to understand that all my past beliefs are not allowing me to move forward, the way my soul wants it.  These past beliefs are preventing me from living my life to the fullest.   Cleaning helps me to let go of resentment.  It also clears out preconceptions in how I view others.  The more that I clean, I get to remove toxic, self limiting beliefs, doubts and fears from my mind.  I will be interacting with quality things.  I get to connect with people that are vibrating at the same frequency. The moment I start to clean, there will be paradigm shift.  But first, I must take full responsibility on all my actions.  I have to stop t

Happiness makes me to move forward with joy.  It is a feeling to tell me my life is good.  It gives me a sense of well being and contentment.  It is letting me to experience positive and pleasant emotions in my state of being.  In mental, emotional, physical and spiritual states. Happiness improves the quality of life.  It matters when I want to achieve beautiful things in life.  I am an emotional being and to experience happiness on a daily basis makes a lot of difference in life.  It makes me to connect with others meaningfully.  It builds my capacity to cope and I get to appreciate life. Happiness is not by chance but by choice.  Trying to live a happy life is not about denying negative emotions.  Nor it is about pretending to feel joyful all the time.  When I am happy, it is good to make the most of the good times.  Happiness is a deep sense of flourishing. It is important I keep happiness alive.  It is an emotional state to create quality in life.  It enriches the feelings of sati

I am not perfect and that is the real me.  Nor do I want to be perfect.  To be perfect is to live a life in an imaginary ideal world.  But, my world is not imaginary nor it is perfectly ideal.  Striving for perfection is stressful and I do not want to live a stressful life. When I stop striving for perfection, I can be less worried and be a happy person.  To pursue a perfect life, I create unrealistic expectations from myself, without realizing it much.  Perfectionism steals away the meaning on life as it constantly remind me that I will never be good enough. I do not want to be right either.  Being right inflates my sense of self worth, my undying ego.  It is an unhealthy feeling that wreak havoc on my relationship with others.  To think that I am right, and always have to be right, fails me from acknowledging that life is far from perfect. What I should live for is to make things right.  To make things right for me and not for someone else.  I have to live to make myself happy first.

When I give, I want to forget that I have given.  I want to stop thinking about it.  I shall think no more of it.  It has passed and I should move on.  I should erase it off my mind, completely if I can.  When it is given from out of love, love does not expect any returns. Give unconditionally - this is the best deed ever.  Have I given out my time to those I love?  What have I given to my family?  How much love do I give to my physical, emotional, mental and spiritual body?  Have I contributed to my groups of friends and to my community? I have to teach myself to give without any reasons.  To love without conditions.  To talk without bad intentions.  And most of all, to care for people without any expectations. I ought to give without placing conditions, freely.  There shall be no expectation nor thought of repayment.  When I receive a 'Thank You', that shall be the end of the undertaking.   From here on, I have to remember to forget the deal, what I have given.  Should I expe

Everything that I do cause ripple effect.  Whether it is my word, my action or my thought, the effect from these acts influences and it spreads.  Like a domino, a series of things shall happen.  In all things, they open doors for the next thing. One small act of kindness can change the world.  One horrific word can destroy a relationship.  One simple thought can change an event.  There is an influential power on every little things.   Everything hinges on energy.  An action, a word or a thought radiates vibratory effects - subtle, yet it changes things around. I have to be in charge of what I think about.  I have to watch my action.  I have to be kind with my words.  Whatever energy that I engage with has to be of a conscious effort towards character building.   Every little act is significant than I might think.  Every word, every act and every thought changes the outcome and the events.  They can snowball and one is never exactly the same after that. I have to act in the faith of goo

Superstition is made by human, for human.  It is a human thing, mostly fear motivated.  Believing in superstition is not living with the faith of God.  Superstition divides but God unites.  They do not complement each other.  Superstition is the illusion of control. Yes, the world can be a terrifying place.  Yes, God does not seem to spare humans from bad things.  But, do humans know what are God's bigger plans for us all? One superstitious example:  On happy occasions, it is told not to talk about death.  There is also a belief to avoid attending funeral wake during Chinese New Year.  It is a bad luck thing.   But, isn't death a part of life that can happen any time?  Are those who passed on during any of these festive occasions a bad thing? What happen to love?  What is happening with respect?  Why are humans playing God to dictate what is right and what is not?   Should superstitions are God's ways, why are there different sets of beliefs between the East and West?  Or b

Life is a friend who walks with me.  He is always there, watching me as I make all kinds of choices.  He is always whispering into my ears reminding me that I am loved.  That my life has a meaningful existence, that it has purpose.  He wants me to be happy and to take heart that all things are well and good. Life does not judge me, he does nothing of that sort.  The one that is judging is me.  Life is the aspect of existence that is neutral in nature.  The process of life is linked to the story it contains.   I am the story teller.  I write every lines, every chapters in the story.  I am the one that impose upon it and demand on how life has to be. When I open the door to let Life to love me, I open myself to Life.  I will see my true self identity.  Everything that I need shall be revealed to me.  He will create values and meaning and let me to move into the future creating the present. When Life loves me, he will show me about acceptance.  The acceptance that I have limits.  The acce

I wish the light of repentance wakes on me so that I can walk into the light.  And its brightness goes deeper into my cellular consciousness to wake me up and guide my ways.  I am certain the feeling of regret will open up into something bigger, a complete spiritual change .  I wish the light reaches into my heart and it wakes the seed of goodness within. Repentance is not an apology.  It is not a confession.  It is an act of making a 180 degree turn to own my errors, mistakes and wrong doings where I shall take them with full responsibility.   I pray for the light of repentance to shine on my thoughts and burns away all negativities.  I pray for the light to beam on my words and let me to communicate with loving positive words.  I pray for the light to glow on my deeds so that I respect all creations.  I pray for the light to radiate on my actions and it teaches me to be humble to acknowledge my imperfections. I want the light of repentance to teach me to be human first before I talk

To be at peace with life is to accept things as they are.  I have to avoid analyzing too much or to fret on the small stuffs.  When there is too much over-analyzing or over-thinking, the decision making becomes paralyzed.  Analysis is paralysis and there shall be no solution or course of action acted upon. Life is usually understood when I look backwards.  My past experiences shall be the guide and they are good life lessons to provide the wisdom for the future.  However, I should not live in my past for life has to be lived forward. To live in the past can cause me not to live in the present.  Focusing too much on the past can keep me permanently stuck there.  Rather than spending too much time replaying how things ought to have gone, it is much more productive to let go and let God to transform my present. Living in the past empowers negative thoughts to grow.  When I have learned from my past, it is good that I erase it from my memory.  I need to learn what I can from the memories o

I should not live for the sake of living.  Surely, there is a role for me on Mother Earth, no matter how small it is.  Besides to be a good son, a good brother, a good cousin, I can spread my feeling of love to nature too.  I should talk to the trees, sing to the birds and express my gratitude to all of God's creations by just touching and thinking of them. It takes little effort to smile.  It is courageous to show kindness to strangers in need.  It is a worthy cause to think of good things to the people I know and pray, or truly wish, for their well being.   When I cannot do great things, I can do the small things in a great way. Contributing to others is not only good for the people receiving it.  It is also a good thing that makes me happier and spiritually healthier too.  Giving connects me to others, creating Love in the process.  And, it is not all about money.  I can give my time, ideas and a little energy. Doing things to help others is an action for happiness.  I have to o