The Blessed Life

Should I go by the principle 'when I point a finger at someone, there are three fingers point back', I should accept that, yes! only my fart smells.  This acceptance should wake me up.  I have to own this realization.  I should take full responsibility.  And, I should fully be watchful that the smell does not affect others.  My duty is that I must be aware of what I am doing.  I must take charge not to impose on others. I have to learn to be sensitive.  I have to learn to love the fool in me.  I must not fight but accept all my imperfections.  Any struggles are futile but God's love is constant. I have to learn to know.  Then, when I know, I have to learn to know better.  Perhaps, by then, I will also be able to do better.  That is what kindness is too. I have to, continuously, make me a better person with a good soul.  After all, the most important value of Life is the happiness of the soul, not anything outside of it. To God, I love You and "Thank You" for accep

When the going gets tough, the tough get going.  Yes, that should be how I live.  I have to believe in who I am.  I have to have faith that my life is guided and protected.  It is all in the mind and the more I stay positive, the easier life is. It is good to think positive.  All my troubles are to make me stronger.  All my troubles can be solved.  I should not give up.  Confucius says 'Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall'. If I cannot fly, then I run.  When I can't run, then I walk.  When I can't walk, then I crawl.  Whatever I do, I have to keep moving forward.  These should be how I am to live my life with my head up. The better me is not where I stand in moments of comfort and convenient.  But, it is where I stand at times of challenges.  As another saying goes, in which I have to live by it, 'You're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think'. When life gives me lemon, I shall mak

Few years back, I received this beautiful message from a very dear soul.  It reads 'Whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, just remember how far you have come.  Remember everything you have faced, all the battles you have won, and all the fears you have overcome'. This meaningful message gives me strength.  The message gives me the realization that everything is possible.  That, there are no happy days nor there are sad days.  There is always something good in every day.  Every experiences are how my mind wants to interpret them.  And, I must choose to stay positive every day. The only way to live a wonderful life is to face the day, with courage of love to live.  A strong person is when he or she feels the pain, understands it and accepts it.  Behind each pain, it is good to light up life with optimism. I should not live to be needy of my needs.  Others do not owe me nor do I owe them.  I should quit expecting anything in return.  It shall do me good not to li

Everything that I want to achieve has to start with day one of action.  It should not be a 'one day I will do it' or 'no action, talk only' attitude.  When I am not taking any action, I am telling the Universe that I do not have the full motivation.  That there is still a little doubt and I need more time to think things out. The Universe conspires to make everything I want to achieve happen.  The author, Paulo Coelho wrote 'when you want something, all the Universe conspires in helping you achieve it'.  But, when I delay a decision and waiting for that one day, the Universe will not make it to materialize.   Time and tide wait for no man.  I must learn not to slip an opportunity as it may never come again.  Great opportunity do not come everyday.  I need to recognize and seize it with every chance I get.  I need to put my wants, my desires into immediate action. To delay an action comes with a price.  The time between intention and action affects the experience

On any given day, I receive at least one inspirational or motivational quote on chat apps.  They are beautiful messages touching on the aspects of life.  Very often, the beautiful messages are giving me the opportunity to reflect. There are many wonderful messages that let me to fill my shortcomings.  Should I not receive them, I will not know and I shall live in oblivion. Surely, there has to be reason why I receive them.  These messages are to wake me up and remind me about the various stages of my life.  They are important as they allow me to learn.  They usually nudge my mind. But, do I take them seriously?  Do I internalize the messages that I deem inspiring and motivating?  What do I do after reading them?  How much do I allow them to be parts of my life? I have to find meaning reading these messages.  I have to find ways to make them stay with me.  I must not read them lightly. I have to find purpose why I forward them.  I should not forward them casually. I have to own these me

When my soul is happy, there will be a big drive to live for a good life.  A good life where I will understand that whatever I do, I will do it for love, for peace and more.  When I am at peace with myself, I am at peace with anything outside of me.   When I am in love with myself, it is where I truly know to love others. With a happy soul, I accept life as Just Is.  I accept others for who they are.  I understand that everyone is right in their own perspective.  And, importantly, I will stop to prove to show off my ego to the world how intelligent I am.   Simply, I shall live for who I am in the name of the Divine Creator. When my soul is happy, it will become the best shield for me to survive in this world.  It will protect me from harm, from disappointment, from greed, from sadness, from sorrow.  Living with a happy soul makes me to focus on my well being.  On how to make myself a good human being. It is important that I live every day to make my soul happy.  It is important that I

Today, I am dedicating to all the loved ones that have gone before me.  May they rest in eternal peace.  May their souls walk along the divine path.  May their paths towards the rising sun be blessed. I humbly ask for forgiveness on their behalf.  I humbly ask that they be cleansed, purified and released to the path of the pure divine light.  I humbly ask that they no longer will be earthbound.  As I bid them goodbye to the path of light, they will release me in return. I thank them for reaching out to me and speak without the words.  I thank them for choosing me and sharing their lives.  To them, I say 'Thank you for watching over and guiding me'.  Humbly, I wish them the best.  Death is a true blessing where all their tasks are done on Mother Earth. But here I am left with jealousy feelings.  I am jealous of where they are now.  I am jealous of the way divinity makes them happy without me.  I am jealous of the love where they are today. I will always miss them.  Their departu

A decision is important.  When I can make a decision, it helps me in choosing on various options.  When a decision is made, there shall be peace of mind.  There shall be clarity.  There will be momentum.  There will be a direction to follow in moving forward. Not able to make a decision may get me stuck in life as there is no path to guide me.  Decision making helps me to be proactive and it pushes me to be alive.  I have to focus on what I want and on where I want to go.   In life, it is essential that I give attention on steps to make up my mind. Whatever the decision I am making, it is important to focus on how the decision is made.  I should not focus whether I am making the right decision.  The right decision is when I am happy to conduct it. When I own to be happy, I will make better decisions.  With happiness, I educate myself and make certain that I am fully informed.  When I am happy, any decisions are invested with less pressure. Success in life is a journey, not a destinatio

I receive this beautiful message and it makes me thinking.  The message reads 'Be certain that you do not die without having done something wonderful for humanity - by Maya Angelou (an American poet)'. Have I contributed anything meaningful to humanity?  Have I done enough charity works to build a sustainable future for humanity?  Whom do I live for, other than for my own survival? As I ponder, it reminds me of another message.  There's a line, 'ants are busy too', that strikes me.  Ants are busy insects and each one of them cares enough for their colonies.  They do many busy jobs that are important else the colony might die without combined efforts.  It is in togetherness that determines for the colony to survive. Is my life too busy or that I care less about the world around me?  What can I do to the people whom I can be useful to?  Don't I want to make my world, the worlds of my loved ones and others a happier place to live together? What are the reasons for

Rumi says 'We are born of love' and he adds 'Wherever you are, and whatever you do, be in love'.  I have to remember that I am born of love and that is what I am.  There is a seed of love inside me from the day I was born.   I must not turn love into something negative and abuse it.  Nor should I do something that is not love.  When I do not honour the seed of love inside of me, I am shunning away from making myself a human. Wherever I am, whatever I do, I need to do things out of love.  Out of kindness from my heart.  Out of the divine light I have been entrusted with.  I am the creator of my own actions.  Whatever I do, wherever I am, will rig in my favor. My task is to ensure that I stay love and not to seek for love.  I need to make love shines and it will be good that I spread it too.  What matters, at all time, is what I feel about the choice I make.  My soul must be at peace.   I must not let love die within me.  Without love, my world will not be in my favor.  L